my girlfriend started goign to this teen club every couple of weeks and i cant go with her cause my parents wont let me , and when she is over there she says she dances and she said she "grinded" a couple of times..............i told her i dont like it but she immedaitly said that i dont trust her and that she didnt do anything wrong and she wont ever let another guy touch her in a "bad" way , but i didnt like the idea ...so i told her not to let guys touch her or grind again ........so she said she do that for me .......but honestly i dont like her goign to the club in the first place , not without me........i really want to acutally marry this girl and ever since she started clubing i have all this doubts if she is the one right enough to raise my kids..........so what should i do ?
2006-11-23 03:45:09 · 6 answers · asked by help!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
How old are the 2 of you? Why won't you parents let you go? If your girlfriend loves you the way you love her she wouldn't be going to these club dances she'd be hanging out with you! lol And if she's "grinding" does she do it to the air? Obviously she grinding with someone!
2006-11-23 03:49:39 · answer #1 · answered by missjewl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you really don't like her going without you and invite her to do something with you when she normally would be going to the club.
If she ditches you anyway and goes to the club, kick her to the curb, she seriously isn't worth it if she won't respect your feelings.
2006-11-23 12:48:19 · answer #2 · answered by Deliela 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude you are still a teenager I gather about 15 or 16 wait till you turn 20, you think you have problems NOW Hmmmmmmmm. don't even worry about it because if the table was turn you will be doing the same thing and you know it peace.
2006-11-23 11:59:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you?! I mean, if you depend on your parents... the idea with the marriage and children... think about it! weird! anyway try to understand your girlfriend. maybe she is telling the truth and there's nothing happening between her and other guys... but acting like a paranoid will sure make her chase after some other guy!
2006-11-23 11:54:00 · answer #4 · answered by sea_star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then dump her if you dont like what she is doing or you could try talking to her
2006-11-23 11:47:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww your so sweet! tell her what you think about the situation. if she doesn't understand....i'm really sorry!
2006-11-23 12:16:53 · answer #6 · answered by Julia L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋