A guy from my college proposed me but i refused saying that we can be simple friends, he accepted but time and again he shows his feelings, and i do interrupt him from doing so whenever possible but not everytime as i have a fear of him because he is kinda bully.........he's very self respectful person but even if i insult him, he does not mind.........many times he talks senti showing that he likes me, despite of me repeating time and again that we can just be friends...what should i do???
2006-11-23 03:17:45 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
okay well this guy is head over heels for you. i think he is trying so hard because he thinks you feel this way about him deep down and your afraid to get out your feelings. what you can do is be sensitive with him. tell him that your more than flattered and surprised that he proposed to you, but we can only stay simple friends right now. im not ready top get married right now and believe it or not i have dreams and goals i want to make come true. and i know you do too. and dont tell me that the only dream you have is to be my husband. i know you have things to accomplish in life. so thats why. we can still be really good friends b ut thats all we are going to be. if you liked me this much you would accept it and move on."if after that he still doesnt understand then maybe you shouldnt talk to him anymore. try avoiding him if he makes you feel uncomfortable. if he does understand then thats one less thing to worry about in life.
2006-11-23 03:41:10 · answer #1 · answered by shanice 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Arre madam woh chahe kitne bhi bada pehelwan ya dada kyuo na ho apko uthaa ke thode lee jayaga
so no need to fear him just because he is some kind of bully or egotist.As you yourself said that he doesn't mind even if you insult him,then why do you fear to really express your feelings.Just stay calm,tell the whole story to one of your closest friend & ask her to stay close by if possible,that way this guy will not find you alone so frequently.Still if this guy proposes you again & again,be firm (and fearless) and tell him that the two of you can only be good friends & that too after he stops all this non-sense.
Finally if this guy still does't stop bothering you the best course of action will be to inform your college security personnels (your family too,if you wish)
2006-11-23 05:10:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's enough that u told him the real score. Now, if he refuses to validate and accept that and keeps on insisting, that's his problem. It should not be your burden to carry, girl. If u fear him then that is another story. U may report this fear of urs with security in ur college so it may be recorded as such. Let them talk to him. If that will not hold him off and, in case, he hurts u the next time, rules of the law shall prevail. Be more aggressive to take steps to protect urself from creeps like that. U don't deserve to be threatened by anyone. Good luck.
2006-11-23 03:32:51 · answer #3 · answered by dolphin saver 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you know this guy well enough... obviously the guy is head over heels for you but i say take him to the side and tell him, that the reason why you refused his proposal is because you just want to be friends now. And if anything happens in your friendship with him in the future then you will think about but right now you just want to be friends with him. Now if he is constantly bugging you about marrying him then tell him that you need your space cause he's crowding it. If he likes you that much he should be able to grant your wishes and let you have your space.
2006-11-23 03:24:09 · answer #4 · answered by hotblacanesemama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-12 23:37:21 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have seen this a million times...and no one ever listens...until they end up in a weird and hurtful situation
I am a guy and know the thought process, granted I was 15 when I had them...he is trying to obligate you to like him...never worked for me...but as long as you are around he thinks he has a shot
does not sound like a good friend,,,if he acts in a repeating manner
cut him loose...join match.com
2006-11-23 03:25:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be very careful, i convinced my wife like that only but it took me 8 years but i convinced her.
After i proposed her for the first time she did not talk to me for 3 years, but later one day i was fully drunk and spoke to her all that i wanted to for years and then slowly every 6 months like that i show my feelings kind of telling stories about somehting.
Intentionally doinf funny things and now that we are married and going to have a kid in few months.
Think of your family situation and if Love is okthen continue your friendship else i tell you something "Men want what they want when they want it" BE CAREFUL.
2006-11-23 20:29:42 · answer #7 · answered by Mandev 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him straight to leave you alone. You have to be cruel to be kind. Tell him you have found someone else if you need to, but tell him enough is enough and that if he carries on the way he has been doing then he won't even have you as a friend. If he values your friendship then he will back off. If he doesn't then.....he wasn't worth having as a friend anyway.
2006-11-23 03:23:49 · answer #8 · answered by Lucy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How can you allow him to talk so much ? Now either you contact the college authorities and tell your parents or solve the problem with the help of your college friends.You follow whichever is best for you.
2006-11-23 20:28:07 · answer #9 · answered by bigboss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, if u r really don't like him, get away from him. and i think ur in below 20 years in age so this is not a correct age to select to life partner be care full dear
2006-11-23 04:46:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋