I am 24 years old and I am the youngest in a family of three. My other sisters are 31 at 36 years old respectively. I have recently gotten out of a FWB relationship with a 35 year old divorced mother of 3 and I did backstab her a bit which I feel bad about (I told the unavailable man she was sleeping around, which she was) and promptly she cut contact with me!
Anyhow that is not the point of this question, the point is that I constantly look at what my sisters have ie house, children, husbands and what my FWB had, children, house. And I don't see the bad things especially with FWB, bipolar, complicated relationships, ex husband. Am I looking for a mother figure? Does anyone else do this? Am I stupid for comparing myself to these people as they are all older than me? Also, is it any coincidence they are all women?
2006-11-23 03:09:31 · 6 answers · asked by dfdf d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think you sound normal actually. I think it goes back to your relationship with your mother. This can go both ways. Either you two were very close and you are just looking for a relationship like that or the two of you had a strained relationship and you are merely looking to fill that void. Either way is normal.
2006-11-23 03:17:22 · answer #1 · answered by Carrie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but it sounds like you want a husband, house and children yourself.
I would think that you did not have a wholesome father figure to understand the male role, which is to make the home for the woman you love. You have to build those things for or with the woman you love.
I sounds like you have gender and personality issues that need a closer look by a professional.
Please get things in order so that you can have a good life for yourself. That good life will be determined by what you find out about yourself and what you really want with the help of a good therapist.
Love and the best to you.............Please do not try to sabotage anymore of your "friends". That is not being a friend, without a doubt.
What is a fwb relationship??
2006-11-23 03:19:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
On going through above I think you need a some emotional help from your friends and relatives.
2006-11-23 03:25:33 · answer #3 · answered by shri 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-29 09:51:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Edipus Rex anyone?
2006-11-23 03:29:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WTF?
2006-11-23 03:17:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋