2006-11-23 01:02:28 · 5 answers · asked by Peripatetic 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
May I suggest that you use this web site, that is for teens (gay and straight). It doesn't gloss over facts, and presents the info in a straight forward manner. Kids are clueless as to risk, and feel invincible. The very notion that oral sex is viewed as not "really sex" is not a good sign. Parents need to arm their kids with more than just admonishments, they need real advice.
http://www.sxetc.org/
2006-11-23 01:28:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a parent myself, I would just sit them down, and explain that even though most people think oral sex is OK that it is not. Tell them as I told my daughter, that it could be more dangerous than just having sexual intercourse, because there is not protection there at all. Advise them that there are many contagious deceases they can catch and that some of these do not go away even with medication. For example Herpes, if it is a girl, that every time she has a baby she will have to have a c-section so that her baby would not catch it. If it is for boys advise them that if at any time they find a woman that they love and want to marry them and have children, the embarrassment they will go through explaining to them that they have a disease and might loose the one they love. Just tell them all you know, that is all you can do. explain to them how to protect themselves. After that not much more you are able to do. Children listen, but sometimes they don't want to let you know that they understand what you are saying, but they do hear and keep some of that information in the back of their mind. So just keep talking, and hopefully, they will be grateful later you did make the effort to inform them as a parent should. Wish you luck with this, and God bless for being you and a wonderful, informed parent.
By the way, Happy Thanksgiving.
2006-11-23 09:13:46 · answer #2 · answered by Boricua Born 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't feel that sex is dirty.I don't have a problem talking about it to my son at all, and he in turn has no problem talking about it with me.
My son has not had sex yet, but if he were to be in a long term relationship and it develops to the next step he will be prepared. He knows the basic principles- your actions create reactions or lifelong responsibilities. He knows the best way to protect against conceiving and sexual disease. He also knows this is his choice, not mine. He is an individual who is capable of making choices like this. I know when I was a kid, I made my own choices!
2006-11-23 09:14:02 · answer #3 · answered by earinfection 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that its supposed to be special with someone you care about. if you treat it whimsically it will treat you the same and possibly ruin the most fun you can have for free. ask them what do they consider to be the most important organ in the body for sex ? when you explain to them its the brain they might think differently. once you disrepect sex it disrepects you and then you need more for stimulation.
2006-11-23 09:07:24 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
teach them about the hazards, or they will learn by rumor or find it the hard way.
2006-11-23 09:11:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋