i have a major dilema me and a close mate of mine have had several sexual conferences but we both have girl friends and we dont know whether we should tell our girls and dont know wether this makes us gay
2006-11-23 00:43:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think if this question really is a true question.. you are not doing the correct thing by cheating like that... You will loose your girlfriend if you tell her whats going on. You need to stop this fling with your friend if you want to stay with your gf.. you should be honest with yourself and ask your own self... maybe you are not"gay" but bisexual. Maybe you should not be in a serious relationship right now.
2006-11-23 00:47:12 · answer #1 · answered by yo mama 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Have both of you been watching Brokeback Mountain lately? If you are gay you simply like the same sex. Presuming you still both like girls, therefore you are bisexuals. You can tell your girlfriends IF they are open about these things but most likely they will freak out and call you fags. Sooner or later you both have to face the fact if you want to continue your sexual conferences and still have girlfriends or simply be together like gay couples.
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2006-11-23 11:23:27 · answer #2 · answered by PAXson 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You must not tell your girlfriends - it's none of their bloody business.
keep having sex with your mates and eventually only YOU will decide if you still want vaginas or if you are satisfied with a nice warm, sweet guy.
I say - go for the guys and fall in love. It's a simpler and more honest way to live. You can be so happy with a guy and you can easily live without women.
2006-11-23 13:14:16 · answer #3 · answered by blackbird 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is it really necessary to label people as fi they products on a shelf to be sold? So, if you sleep with guys you get the label of gay which you should wear for a lifetime.
I prefer to think that people are far more than the stupid labels used to make them easily understood. Instead of looking for labels we should live life and try to know people apart from any labels. I definetely don't think you are gay!
2006-11-23 10:01:05 · answer #4 · answered by jorge_mendes_ssa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say you both are probably bisexual. Just because right now you feel like you want to sleep with ur mate more, doesn't mean you don't still want to sleep with your girlfriend.
I think you know what would happen if your girlfriends found out, and by telling them, you're admitting something big. I would be prepared for a difficult time, especially if you care about your girlfriend. But, you never know, your girl might really like it and ask your mate over.
Only you can really answer this question.
I wouldn't panic about whether you're gay or not, obviously you have tendencies if you're sleeping with another guy.
Good luck :)
2006-11-23 08:53:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it suggests that your bisexual and if you are what your doing is as good as cheating on your girlfriend id be carefull in telling her it could destroy her and even make her question if it was herself that turned you to men maybe you shouldnt be with her any way if your not faithfull its never good for a relationship and if you were single you could take the time to explor your sexuality and find out for your self know one can tell you weather your straight or gay as they dont feel what you do good luck
2006-11-23 08:51:19 · answer #6 · answered by LIL'EM 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just follow Brokeback Mountain story. It's amazing. Can I join?
2006-11-23 08:47:38 · answer #7 · answered by ryan g 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, not gay but curious.
2006-11-23 08:52:31 · answer #8 · answered by Bladerunner (Dave) 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i would either say your curious or bisexual
2006-11-23 16:49:27 · answer #9 · answered by paul_wilkie2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your girlfriends so they can get rid of you.
2006-11-23 08:57:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋