today i meet with my friend who just has break out with me without any reason ......&may he love my body only .as he was ready to be my friend again .......my friends who give me suggestions through their e-mails......he agree to this but still want me to hv sexual relation....is it fine to do this as i hv got him back in my life ...is he still flutering me or is its true love which make him to come back to me? plzzzzzzz................help again me to take decision .....today i met with her mother also she agree to accept me ...now plz tell me that is he love me that he make a meet to his mother of mine...i m totally confused ,hhhheeellllpppppp!!!!!!!
2006-11-23 00:10:23 · 15 answers · asked by dilpreet parmar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Donn go back to this guy ,, He juss want to use u. He is a jerk
2006-11-23 00:33:46 · answer #1 · answered by mommy2be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ideally love should be unconditional. If that guy is making his love for you conditional to your having sex with him, then clearly its not love but lust.
You have said that his mother is ready to accept you. But accept you as what? As her daughter in law? Has she made any commitment to that effect? Or just finds you good enough to be her daughter in law among many other prospective girls? Also, I don't think that she is aware that her son is asking you to have sex with him.
Just remember that ultimately you are going to marry the man not his mother. If for some reason he begins to dislike you for being able to satisfy him sexually some time after you are married to him, I don't think your mother in law would be of much help to salvage your marriage. If you don't crave for his love and marriage to him at any cost, I think it is better to cut all ties with him or anybody like him.
2006-11-23 02:34:14 · answer #2 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a feeling and sex is a physical requirement but for me love comes first if he is not in love with u than y u want him back only for using ur body. He is a selfish person don't trust him, Just say him a big NO for such thing he is demanding u. Be yourself have faith in u and u will definitely get one who loves u , who will understand ur feelings and than u will feel proud for ur decision of leaving such a mean and selfish person. His mother is also a woman and i respect her for having such feelings towards u but if his son is not understanding u than she will be helpless. so don't make hope for him but go ahead in search of true love .
2006-11-23 01:14:12 · answer #3 · answered by kajalb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear its too bad...if he only loves ur body and just want to make sexual relation with u and u think he dosen`t have any feelings with ur heart,and just got away frm u wothour any reason.i no wahts the problem.he has defenetly find other gf in his life thats y he damp u dear.y r u give them chance to damp u.get some footage for few days.and u will no the reason dear.
2006-11-24 18:50:21 · answer #4 · answered by Redrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um, my advice is not so encouraging. im no psychiatrist but ive seen this happen before. i would suggest that if he's leaving high school, then drop the relationship (to put it flatly). he's probably gonna meet someone else in college or university and hook up with them UNLESS he is that crazy about you and serious about the relationship. give him (or both of you) some time and see if he is still serious about you in which case carry on. good luck
2016-05-22 22:18:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I so much wish to help you but i dont understand wat u are realy sayin. Are u a girl and how old are u? Be careful of these boys that make empty promises just to get u laid my dear.. For now i would advise you to wait until you are sure of what you are saying... read ur question and then hit me up at nqoiswa@yahoo.com
2006-11-23 00:23:05 · answer #6 · answered by ms *toni* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regarding sex, u have to decide whether u want to go ahead or not! As, be ready that after sex he may still dump u and u should not be heart broken!
If u r not ready for sex, don't go ahead!
Best of luck
2006-11-23 00:39:50 · answer #7 · answered by Moti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
i feel he wants only a physical relationship with you.It might not be true love that has drawn him to you again.
Be careful.
Ultimately if something untoward happens, you will have to suffer.
Don't get worried over trivia.
This life is precious.
Don't get depressed too.
Get over your worries soon.
This life is given to us to celebrate, not to worry.
2006-11-23 00:16:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SORRY DEAR AS PER MY OPINION WHAT I THINK HE DONT LOVE U AND IF U AGAIN GO ON WID HIM I THINK THN THERE IS NO BIGGER FOOL THN U AS HE WNT U BODY ONLY NOT LOVE AND LOVE CAN ONLY B THERE BY LOVING NOT HAVING SEX FIRST .I HOPE U PRB WILL GET SOLVED QUICKELY BEST OF LUCK
2006-11-23 00:15:33 · answer #9 · answered by prateek 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just calm down and think with a Clear mind...........
Weigh all the pros and cons abt him, If you fell that the Cons are more than the pros, Just move on Simple!!!!!! Dump Him...........
2006-11-23 00:56:04 · answer #10 · answered by Nithin R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋