if you just got in a fight w/ your parents, what is the best action to make up for it?
2006-11-23 00:04:47 · 20 answers · asked by Kaylor 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
say you are sorry and it will never happen again
2006-11-23 00:09:30 · answer #1 · answered by <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way they can forgive you is for you to move their hearts, and be true about what you say, or what you do.
First, beg for their forgiveness.
Secondly, you must tell them that you will never fight with them again, on the condition that they do not pick up unreasonable matters and reasons to pick a fight with you.
Thirdly, elaborate on the reasons why you picked that fight with them or vice versa, and tell them that you were wrong, or you think that they were wrong. Tell them why.
Fourthly, be filial towards them in the near future. Obey their requests if they are reasonable enough, and help them to the best of your ability when they are in need.
After all, they raised you up, didn't they? There is no need to severe all ties with them just because of a fight, right? Treat the fight like a devil who is trying to seperate you from your parents. Have the willpower to do what is right, and differentiate right from wrong.
You will find that your relationship with your parents will improve, and you will lead a better and more fruitful life.
2006-11-23 08:29:39 · answer #2 · answered by happy_face95 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just did too. Well, I would try not talking to them. But it's hard. I mean not talking to your parents aren't the easiest thing to do. I was so anngry though that I did. Why don't you try saying sorry or let them break the ice. That way you have pride and you're free with guilt. See if that works.
2006-11-23 08:13:56 · answer #3 · answered by lifeluver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents that you are sorry, and you know your behavour was wrong. Trust me, they will appreciate it, many kids fight with their parents, but someone who apoligeses sincerely is greatly appreciated. You may also want to help them out, like do a little extra chore around the house, or do something you enjoy with them
2006-11-23 09:53:56 · answer #4 · answered by Terra_chan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apologize, you obviously feel bad about something. often we need time to step back and see the situation more objectively. Also be humble and don't make excuses or sass back, it could start a whole new fight!
2006-11-23 08:47:51 · answer #5 · answered by ShellBell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize and mean it. Mention what you felt you did wrong and how you could have done it right. Give everyone a little time to cool down though.
2006-11-23 08:08:36 · answer #6 · answered by KyLeth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take responsibility for your actions and apologize.
2006-11-23 18:36:38 · answer #7 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say sorry and give them time to calm down. Talk to them later on. Make sure to tell them how sorry you are.
2006-11-23 13:07:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them you are sorry and take the punishment!
2006-11-23 12:50:34 · answer #9 · answered by Kilee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be really nice and tell them you are sry and that you shouldnt have done what you did and they'll be happy, i promise
2006-11-23 11:38:39 · answer #10 · answered by Brittaney x3's Holden 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋