I have known my boyfriend for 3 years and he had a girlfriend, he was the man I'd wanted... , I ended a bad relationship and he ended up breaking up with his girl for me. He had been with his girlfriend for years so i think things were fizzlin anyway...
Now the excitment of just being with him has worn off and I feel as though hes not fulfilling my emotional needs. In my past relationships I've been very close to my man with a lot of sexual attraction and to know I can talk to him about anything and that he'd go out of his way for me, which it seems he never does.
I don't doubt that he truly cares about me I know he does but he has a job that takes up a lot of his time and I am only 20 I feel like I am wasting my time devoting myself to him.
I told him last night I want to end it becuz I just dont like the relationship and I know I hurt him and I feel miserable. Is this my heart telling me I should hold on a lil more?We live 2gether so breakin up would mean starting over.
2006-11-22 23:53:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're still young. I think you should date more and not commit to one person.
2006-11-22 23:59:00 · answer #1 · answered by Rocky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's okay....take your time,don't rush to conclusions,you just need to bring more excitment into the relationship,you know you love him and would be 10times more miserable if you were to break up, i fyou need more closure its easy to go together and talk to a therapist or a counselor in a church.good luck
2006-11-23 08:42:28 · answer #2 · answered by Olivebrowny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what if ur needs aren't being met move on and move out! I hope it was ur place tht he moved in otherwise u better b lookin for a new place y waste time living w/ someone ur not attached to anymore?
2006-11-23 07:57:30 · answer #3 · answered by ~Niecee~ âË» âË» ♂ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋