Thanks for all of the great advice guys... I just have a few more questions... After reading everthing over, I do feel that I drove him to lie in one sense or another. He really is a very sincere guy (with his feelings etc.). I'm just worried he's cheated on me or something... he swears not, but who knows... His lying makes me paranoid. The break up happened tonight but after reading what everyone has written, I do feel like it's something that I want to work through with him, but HOW and should I call him or let him come to me? Do you think we can work through this?
2006-11-22 23:53:00 · 8 answers · asked by L K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My original question (part 1) is somewhere in the singles and dating area.
2006-11-22 23:57:10 · update #1
if hes worth it then why not, try if it doesnt work then at least you tried!
2006-11-22 23:55:29 · answer #1 · answered by caroline17nov 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure that he lied to u coz you 've said that he's sincere or are you just so scared of him breaking up with you so u decided to do it first?and dont blame urself if he lied we are all human it all depends on how you handle the situation.have you got proof that he's cheated on you? and dont beat yourself up do you trust him coz if you dont then i dnt know what to tell u.
if you really feel in ur heart u wanna work things out u ca ask him to come over for the two of u to talk.
tell him to tell u why he lied to u ( if he lied ) then tell him u started feeling a lil' bit insecure coz of his lies and thats what scared you. if he loves you he'll agree that u guys sort it out cards on the table and no secrets.
if you love each other, you can make it wok but you have to trust each other and be able to talk to each other about anything if you want to strenghthen what you have for each other.
nener assume that something is happening it either is or not so if you feel somethings not right talk about it what we did we made a pact that if anyone of us hurts the other in any way, we solve tghe issue before the sun sets that way tommorrow we make new memories. if you love him fight for him
2006-11-23 08:08:14 · answer #2 · answered by valery p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello anyone home ? Once a liar & cheat always a liar & cheat. Open some windows and get some fresh air. Don't you deserve better. Why lower yourself to his level ? There are honest people out there and yes, you have to look to find them but, they are there.
Good Luck.
2006-11-23 07:57:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If by anymeans you still feel he loves you, would cry you a river, do anything you ask him, then he deserves a second chance. A second chance with hope for a better relationship is better than a lifetime bad memory...
2006-11-23 07:59:46 · answer #4 · answered by Hamada 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey it's what you want.Call him and try to work things out,if you wait ,he might be too coward and never come.pull him up and talk,reason,give it a try and if he doesn't improve,let him go,there are better out there for you.
2006-11-23 08:02:57 · answer #5 · answered by Olivebrowny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. chances arent so easy to get. he got to treasure them and get chances himself.
2006-11-23 07:55:40 · answer #6 · answered by destinyofangels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what ever your heart (inner) says do it
2006-11-23 07:56:42 · answer #7 · answered by Jacob p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you can decide
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2006-11-23 07:58:14 · answer #8 · answered by dana brown 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋