2006-11-22 23:49:07 · 13 answers · asked by Hamada 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
It's always best to be honest but when you've lied, it must be confessed and asked forgiveness for. You don't want to begin a marriage with dishonesty between you.
2006-11-22 23:52:37 · answer #1 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what did you lie about?
Did you lie and say you wanted to do something like go shopping & not really want to or was it something serious? For her to break up with you....I'd vote for serious.
And do you lie often; make a habit out of it?
People start lying because they are afraid. Afraid they won't be accepted for who/what they are; afraid of being reprimanded.
Whatever you lied about, you need to sit down with your girlfriend (if she will) and be honest with her with a sincere apology. But it's going to be awhile before she will ever believe & trust you again.
I will tell you this, though the truth may hurt at first, it never does lasting harm.
2006-11-23 12:05:17 · answer #2 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see, marriage has a very delicate balance between two people where a small issue can cause a huge rift between the partners.
So, we can't say that telling the truth & being honest is the best policy. Some matters are such that they are best left alone.The thing you have to consider is whether the truth is of such nature that it's gonna break your relation.Or if it's inconsequential. If it'san issue of cheating, then you probably should tell.
Also you ddnt say whether u r a gal or a guy..coz it matters..
2006-11-23 08:08:37 · answer #3 · answered by whodunnit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a way to tell the truth that will help them understand the situation. Things may look different from another point of view. You will need to fix this now. If you live a lie you will never be happy.
2006-11-23 07:54:49 · answer #4 · answered by Jack S. Buy more ammo! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth, tell him why you felt you had to lie and why it was wrong, ask his forgiveness and promise him you wont do it again, and keep that promise, if you can't be honest with each other then maybe marriage is a bad idea.
2006-11-23 08:07:58 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. FairyLove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing. You probably will lie again one day. By confessing your lies, you only going to hurt the othjer person more than letting it go.
2006-11-23 08:01:12 · answer #6 · answered by redacatfish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Admit you lied, apologize, and then the ball is in his court.
2006-11-23 08:34:37 · answer #7 · answered by TyrusB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the truth & pay the consequences.
2006-11-23 07:59:48 · answer #8 · answered by ttjakt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did you lie about and why? If you can't be honest maybe you shouldn't be with them...
2006-11-23 08:00:45 · answer #9 · answered by Jason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great, you are honest apologise.
2006-11-23 07:51:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋