please can some one help me?

Question

i think i have a serious problem but i have not been able 2 admit it till now.my partner says he thought i was getting fat a couple of months ago & im only a size 8 but i stated taking slimming pills now i have eaten anything in a week & i started drinking heavily and now i fell like im dieing in side.what can i do?

Answer 1

I've been researching, and writing on, Nutrition and Health for over 30 years. The combination of not eating - and alcohol will have seriously disturbed your blood sugar levels. You need to eat very small small amounts of foods that won't send your blood sugar soaring. See on my web site:- http://www.foodforthought.org.uk/hypoglycaemia.htm - follow the links for more information.

Answer 2

You need to see a doctor. If you aren't eating but are drinking heavily this will do SERIOUS damage to your liver. If you're a size 8 there is absolutely no reason for you to be not eating and taking these pills. It's good that you know you've got a problem, so you need to get help from those close to you and a doctor before things get out of control. If your partner is telling you you're getting fat when you're a size 8 then you need to speak to him, that's completely unfair and he needs to realise the effect he's had on you. Try and gather up evidence that you can use to stop yourself doing what you're doing - find out your 'ideal' size for your height, find out your ideal weight, find pics of you when you look great and curvy etc and then whenever you feel like skipping meals etc remind yourself why you should eat! As for alcohol, scare tactics work - try reading real life stories of alcohol abuse etc, it should help you stop drinking. Good luck.

Answer 3

Firstly, NEVER take slimming pills; they're a gimmick and many have terrible side effects. Your partner sounds like a ********; I bet he's hardly Mr. Fit himself, and at a size 8 he had absolutely no right to say this to you. Stay with a friend or your parents while you get yourself sorted out, cut out the alcohol, start eating healthily and drinking plenty of water and move your stuff out. If your partner has this kind of effect on you, he can't possibly be a nice guy who's worth staying with. Do yourself a favour and get as far away from him as you can!

Answer 4

you should leave your partner. If he loves you he wouldn't put you down.There are so many men around that would treat you better. you're obviosly no where near fat. stop the pills, and the drinking. Look at yourself in the mirror and remember who you were before this guy made you feel awful. Go out with some friends and have a good time. Get chatted up and just enjoy being you. You can't let any one make you feel like this. Enjoy you're life as you only get one. The slimming pills are probably making you depressed too. You're damaging your body and it's reacting to what you're doing to it. Feel better soon.

Answer 5

Talk to a deitiacan or a nutritionist, they can help you. Honestly you are not fat, i wish i was a size 8. Don't let any guy tell you that you are fat. A guy who tells a woman that, has no cooth. With the problems that woman go through with their bodies, men should understand that. This is why woman have a higher tolerance for pain more then men. If a man ever got a period, He would probably jump off the Brooklyn Bridge. Honey, you ARE NOT FAT!! NO# ONE REASON WHY THERE ARE EATING DISORDERS OUT THERE. I want your partner to see this......

Answer 6

Feel sorry for you. Some men are so insensitive and unkind. What is the worst thing you can say to a woman , " you are fat'. Don't use slimming tabs they are very very bad for you. You can also get addicted to some of them. Weighing 8 stone, you must be sooo tiny. He is just being mean and trying to make you feel insecure and unhappy. Don't let him make you sick. Try and cut down on drinking it is just going to make you feel worse. Don't stop eating please remember when you are lying on your bed feeling ill and unhappy he does not feel a thing , you feel it all. I hope that he will have the decency to apologise to you. My God, eight stone, my daughter weights the same and she has to buy some clothes from kiddies shops , so you must be tiny. If you are really feeling sad and down phone Samaritans they will talk to you and you will feel much better. Good luck and take care ok :)))

Answer 7

thats a pretty harsh thing to say to you!
i actually don't kno anything about sizes or any of that stuff, but size 8 doesn't sound large to me at all. I mean, marilyn monroe was the hottest person on the plannet and she was apparently size 16 my mom says!
however on your diet, def. eat more, the thing is eat the right stuff(salad, fruits instead of a chocolate now and then, a variety of stuff, stay away from oily foods),that way your body gets the things it needs and you won't feel guilty for eating bad stuff.

PS your size is fine!

Answer 8

you need to start eating get rid of the idiot that says your getting fat he should love you even if you get fat . your a size 8 not fat you have to realise that. and don't let the drink be your release for problems I've been in this situation i know how you feel take care xx

Answer 9

1) See doctor - TODAY! - you body needs food and liquid to operate.
2) Dump useless, insensitive partner
3) You are SO not fat - you are a size 8 for goodness sake, i am a size 10 and don't have an inch of fat on me.

lots of love and best wishes for a quick recovery

Answer 10

At size 8 you certainly are NOT fat! I know a great way to lose some heavy weight off you tho, dump the bloke! He is just a burden on your self esteem. Look inside yourself and see what beauty is there because that is the most important thing.