I know it's my fault for doing it and i'm a d**k and everything but once we are past all that please could you offer me some advice on what to do.
Recently split up in FWB with bipolar, divorced mother with 3 kids I loved her with all my heart but she was seeing an unavailable man.We split up due to me getting jealous and telling the unavailable man she was sleeping around, and she was with about 2 other men including me.
I know it was a bad thing to do and I am a jerk I know but she has no contact with me now.I really do still care for her and I told her I loved her but she said that she couldn't love me back as she loved unavailable man.I guess I did it out of jealousy but I did it also because I couldn't stand to see her be used like that by a man she had been with for 3 years
I am trying to justify it by thinking that at least she wasn't married to him and I broke up that relationship. I would never do that..but its still eating me up inside and I miss her and cry for her
2006-11-22 23:22:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u have to do some presents for her, some lovely days, u ve to tell hell 1000 000 times a day, how much u love her, and how much u r sorry for ur actions. ........
u ve to show ur love
it ll help
i m sure
good luck:)
2006-11-22 23:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
So tell me why u think ur a jerk? He has a right to know, you told the truth despite the consequences, and you (along with everyone else who breathes) deserve to be with someone who will be faithful to you.
If she's been with him for three years and hasn't stopped for you, despite the fact he's unavailable, then maybe its time for you to move on? I hear that you loved her a lot and its admirable that you stood by her so long, but sometimes the only healing you can do is as a friend rather than being too involved like that. It could be that what you did, however much it may seem bad, was actually a good thing for both of you.
Good luck to u buddy.
2006-11-22 23:29:51 · answer #2 · answered by BluLettice 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get over it! Why put yourself through such misery on purpose? It is time to meet someone else to at least take your mind off of her. Who knows, you might get lucky and actually find what you are looking for. And remember, chasing the un-available is futile.
2006-11-22 23:30:50 · answer #3 · answered by industrialconfusion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happened to Buggs Bunny and Daffy Duck when they were tunnelining to Pismo Beach.
2006-11-22 23:28:26 · answer #4 · answered by NIGHTSHADE 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love = Pain.
And if you're a dork, she's a ho.
You're better off without her.
Oh yeah - she's just been using you anyway.
2006-11-22 23:25:19 · answer #5 · answered by A_Patriot 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do away with her and look for another one.
2006-11-22 23:37:22 · answer #6 · answered by mikejolyemsegun2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time dont meddle,chances are she was still hooked up on dude
2006-11-22 23:28:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we miss wat we don't have...n we dont value wat we have...
u miss her cos u truly deeply loved her...but maybe she doesnt sees n feels dat love of urs...
we r helpless in love...we know we wud get hurt...but we still wanna keep on tryin n tryin...no matter how much it hurts us...but we dont wanna give up...
everythn u did...was for da reason u loved her..n u cudnt see her being hurt...maybe not now..but yes..in long run...
she doesnt realises dat now...
time is da biggest problem solver....u need 2 give her time...2 see wat she's doing 2 herself....stay in touch wid her..even if it means 2 be as friends...cos if u truly love her...i know ur not gonna let go of her...
remember 1 thing..............da wounds a friend can heal.........no lover can.........
be her friend first...n da day she realises wat she has...n wat she's missin..( U )....she'l be back...
n in case she does not realises dat...........plz dont wait..........for u'l keep on running after a shadow...dat u wont be able 2 catch.....but...den move on wid life...n keep those memories as they are...just cherish em...
2006-11-22 23:33:04 · answer #8 · answered by moooooooovin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋