I met this lad over the weekend, we did not have sex, and I only spent about a hour and a half with him and I felt like I had known him all my life. Anyway he has texed me today saying how he really enjoyed my company the other night, but he texed from a different phone frome the number he gave me the other night so I asked if he got a girlfriend, He said he has but that was the first time in ages he has been out without the girlfriend, and he wants to meet me again he seems to really like me and I do him I have not texed him back yet an agreed to meet him, cause I am struggling with my emotions here, wondering weather to meet him again or tell him I can't, because he has a girlfriend or maybe even just try and be friends with him. What shall I do?
2006-11-22 23:19:50 · 20 answers · asked by Chick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he have a girlfriend, no, the change of him playing you is big and then he gos back to her or maybe his just having fun to flirt with you. His player. Tell him the day when his single his must text you again. But will he be honest about the girl, think about her to, you are going to hurt someone that you don't even know. Be wise, think twice
2006-11-22 23:24:55 · answer #1 · answered by confussie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it cool at the moment and just be friends for now.
You liked him before you were aware that he had a girl friend and one wonders why he did not inform you of this.
Now you are in a different ball game. If you get on well with him when you meet (NO SEX. OK!), put your cards on the table and tell him he cannot run two girls at the same time. It is too soon in your relationship, just on the strength of an hour and a half, but if he wants to go further with you, ultimately he has to make a choice. If he breaks up with his girlfriend to become your boyfriend, bear in mind that the same fate might come to you when he meets someone else he takes a liking to. Good luck!
2006-11-22 23:39:17 · answer #2 · answered by WISE OWL 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet him. You can talk about these things then. This way you can tell if he is genuine ro trying to play you by looking in his eyes when he answers your questions. He may have been completely honest and has planned on leaving his gf but had no reason to until now. It couldn't hurt to go talk to him. Just don'r make any rpomises until your sure.
2006-11-22 23:25:38 · answer #3 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. to me? i think if he likes you he would break up with his girlfriend and go out with you. and if he could fall for you while he has a girlfriend, you should really think if he's going to do it to you if you guys do go out. talk to him about it first. then if you still like him you can to take the risk, but sound like he really likes you. you should ask him about his recent relationships. and when you ask, ask him if he ever cheated on any of his ex girlfriends, if he's cheated over 3 or 4 ex girlfriends then you should forget about him. good luck ! =]
2006-11-22 23:28:55 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this lad can cheat on his gf then it means your nothing special you deserve an honest and decent bloke not a looser whos just trying to get his rocks off then toddle back to his gf tell him ur not intrested and you dont date attached men is it worth getting into something with the gf if she found out
2006-11-22 23:23:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing about girlfriends vs wives: girlfriends can change without much difficulty. Wives can't. So just because he has a girlfriend doesn't make him unfair game.
2006-11-22 23:23:18 · answer #6 · answered by David H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should meet him maybe you could become good friends and possibly with his GF as well but you should make it clear to him that it will only be as friends as he has a GF
2006-11-22 23:25:06 · answer #7 · answered by Peachy Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On going through all your story It appears to me that you have fallen love with him but he is NOT as he has given you different phone number.As such you be cautious with him and do not try to meet him unless he himself try to contact you or meet you.True love never lies dear.
2006-11-22 23:27:27 · answer #8 · answered by shri 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from him if he as a girlfriend and then hes just trying to get into your pants find a guy that wants just u
2006-11-22 23:23:34 · answer #9 · answered by sonoftazont 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not, but if you think you can handle the possibility of maybe never actually getting all of him to yourself, then try it.
2006-11-22 23:23:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋