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I used to work with this bloke, I used to think he was really nice but he had a girlfriend at the time so we where just mates. But he left to work abroud so he finished with his girlfriend and she moved away...but we still talk. We email every day at least 3 times a day even though we work different shifts. He's coming back for a night and we are going to go out for dinner but then he goes away again the next day for 2 months and then back agian permently....What do you think?

2006-11-22 22:38:01 · 12 answers · asked by sparkling Princess 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

12 answers

See how it goes. When you go out see how you feel/he feels and then if whilst he's away you decide it's not worth waiting for then go with that instinct. If you do really like him and it's meant to be then the 2 months apart will not make you want to see anyone else anyway. 2 months isn't that long a time so just go with t he flow and see how things go :)
Good luck!

2006-11-22 22:41:42 · answer #1 · answered by Christian S 2 · 0 0

See how things go on the night out he might show that he feels the same way.

I think that 2 months isn't a long time to wait but you might meet someone in the mean time that you actually like more.

Just live your life and don't worry about the what ifs

2006-11-23 06:42:58 · answer #2 · answered by Peachy Girl 4 · 0 0

Has he ever shown any interest in you, more than just friendship? Don't sell yourself short. See how this one outing will be, but if he doesn't make a move, let go. You are wasting your time waiting on someone who doesn't seem to have roots. He may just decide to 'go away' again. Where will that leave you? You'll find someone else, more stable.

2006-11-23 06:42:17 · answer #3 · answered by DolphinLami 4 · 0 0

I don't really get your question but i'll try to answer any:
If you really like him, and he seems good for you and he likes you...then one of you guys should make a move, and then move altogether. Now, if it's too difficult because he lives abroad and everything, then, well: there are other fish in the sea!! :D
Good luck and i hope you find the solution that'll bring you happiness!

2006-11-23 06:43:29 · answer #4 · answered by Off-with-their-heads! 2 · 0 0

Great relationships start off as friendships first! Sounds promising:) Good Luck!

2006-11-23 06:42:10 · answer #5 · answered by Julia B 6 · 0 0

it's not like u re having blokes in line waiting to ask u out. u really have nothing to lose anyway

2006-11-23 06:43:27 · answer #6 · answered by jacky 6 · 0 0

It sounds like you have a click already so why not give it a go, it could be a dream come true! GOODLUCK!

2006-11-23 06:44:13 · answer #7 · answered by Appy! 1 · 0 0

Think about what ? if you are asking whether hes interested in you then answer seems to be no. But then why dont you ask him directly ?

2006-11-23 06:41:59 · answer #8 · answered by funnysam2006 5 · 0 0

If you have to ask if he's worth waiting for, he might not be.

2006-11-23 06:42:09 · answer #9 · answered by bezsenný 5 · 0 0

if you really like him an he likes you then why not

2006-11-23 06:44:24 · answer #10 · answered by wetnslippy 3 · 0 0

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