A good lay. or are they looking for something deeper?
2006-11-22 22:32:57 · 21 answers · asked by Pardon Moi? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Deep is good.
Having said that, it depends on the guy. Some of them are looking for commitment, others just want more notches in their bedposts.
2006-11-22 22:34:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think that it's probably both! If the 'lay' is obtained to easily, then forget the 'deeper' bit! You must remember, guy's have 'needs' that females curiously don't seem to have! So the answer is simple really! Don't put out so quickly, make him earn it! And while he's busy earning 'it' The deeper thing just might, I say might! come over him! It did me! lol.
2006-11-23 06:46:26 · answer #2 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well a good lay is a great thing on any day.
But take into account that if a relationship is deep you probably will have the best lay every day.
So Pardon Moi.
Get deep with a guy and have awesome sex everyday.
2006-11-23 06:41:51 · answer #3 · answered by alwyn 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is safety in sex, especially good sex. There is enticement, anticipation, a promise of imense pleasure, reward for effort and sincerity.
To go deeper, to expose ones feelings to the whims of another, to beleive in one's heart the eutopic road to inner peace is the unity of two kindred spirits, is problematic at best.
If sex is sweet, and death bitter,
Love must be both.
2006-11-23 06:44:40 · answer #4 · answered by NIGHTSHADE 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not me. Right now I'd like nothing more than to be in a long-term relationship with someone. Sex isn't really that important to me. I mean, yeah, it's fun, and everything, but it isn't top of my list. More important to me is - do we have a lot of things in common? Can we talk about everything? Do we make each other smile? All that has to be in place first before I would even think about sex.
2006-11-23 06:35:51 · answer #5 · answered by supensa 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Personally, for me, a good lay is when you can put your heart into it. It's just so magical with that kind of passion and intensity.
2006-11-23 06:55:47 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet Gemini 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For me, it depends on my mood.
Right now: Just some pussie, or a BJ.
30 Mins ago: Something deeper.
Afterwards: Fix me up a sandwich!
2006-11-23 07:12:27 · answer #7 · answered by 1/6,833,020,409 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
deeper i want someone to put up with my idiotic nonsense
2006-11-24 09:41:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even mediocre lays are also fine, as long as you have an assortment of partners.
2006-11-23 06:36:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I generally get to know the person first & then hope for the fringe benefits.
One thing that bothers me is if I know a female & she is letting guys get in her pants & not letting me
2006-11-23 06:41:08 · answer #10 · answered by bob h 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋