how do u tell a guy u don't want to go down on him.
without the result of breaking up.
2006-11-22 22:16:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Marry the guy first!
You'll be just like all the millions of married ladies out there that deny their hubbys a bj...
ho hum...
2006-11-22 22:22:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you really arent into that, and that you have never done it so that he doesnt feel as though its him that has put you off it. My friend never done it with any of her bf's and then last year she fell in love and done it, she says its nowhere near as bad as she had imagined it to be. So maybe you are thinking about it too much, you could relax and give it a go, if ou felt daring one night.
Have you had it done to you or do you not like it either, I would just tell him that you are sorry, but dont do oral and then try and do other things to take his mind off of that, as men love that.
Good Luck and dont feel pressured into any of it, dont do it just because you are scared he will finish with you, if he does he obviously was only interested in what he could get from you and you can do better.
2006-11-23 06:24:53 · answer #2 · answered by carrienicholson23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be open and honest. There is nothing wrong with it and it may be easier if you do it with each other at the same time. For more information there is a free sex site that tell you all about sex and how to do things and what can happen to you plus they answer your questions.
Be open and honest with him and communicate what you feel.
2006-11-23 06:55:52 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you were molested as a child by your dead uncle and he forced you to go down on him and you have never again gone down on anyone as you have issues to deal with.
Tell him that no one knows about it and cry while doing so.
It is lying but he will never ask you to do this again and he will feel sorry for you and will not brake up with you.
2006-11-23 06:29:28 · answer #4 · answered by alwyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't be concerned if thats a factor in the basics of your relationship, if he would leave you because you won't preform an act that you are not comfortable doing, then he is not your friend/or a potential long term mate,,elsewise tell him when he makes you *** two times before you go DOWN on him, he may feel diffrent,,, aM
2006-11-23 06:43:57 · answer #5 · answered by jeff661nine72oh nine oh oh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he breaks up with u over that then hes not worth it, but u could say u dont enkoy it, or have a weak jaw so cant, have u tried doing it with a sweet in your mouth, then it doesnt taste so ikky.
2006-11-23 06:18:06 · answer #6 · answered by blakorkid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should really be asking yourself why you don't want to, if you loved him you would, pure and simple, and if you to hung up about that kind of stuff then your probably a crap lay and will get dumped a lot. sorry, but its true.
2006-11-23 06:39:40 · answer #7 · answered by Birdy is my real name 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ms Anita; simply tell him you do not do that. If breaks up with you over it then he was not worth being with. Simple, honest.
Good Luck.
2006-11-23 06:21:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont wanna go down on him dont.If he breaks up with you its ok cuz then you can find someone you DO wanna go down on or if it exists a guy who doesnt want you to go down on him,good luck on that
2006-11-23 06:27:13 · answer #9 · answered by savage_14u2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bite the tip by mistake
do it several times with an oops, sorry
2006-11-23 08:02:11 · answer #10 · answered by Gifted S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋