my gf and i have a long distance relationship.. i dont think i am controlling but id like some input. i do not mind if she goes out with her friends to the bars at night i just want her to call at the end of the night.. is this controlling? she never wants to call or always forgets, weve been 2gther on and off for 6 yrs, what should i make of this
2006-11-22 22:06:28 · 8 answers · asked by dancindork17 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
take it easy....being in a long distance relationship need to take a risk. if you want to know the whereabouts of your girlfriend, call her first. And also you should have the balls to end your long distance relationship if you really want or love her. six years is very long enough if you wanted to keep her. find a way that both of you are there with in reach.
i AM A girl, if my bf keep me for six years and no plans at all. why should i bother to call him. I have life on my own, and need to be love and inlove too. so find a way man. dont just wait in there.
2006-11-22 22:13:49 · answer #1 · answered by miss_confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm I know that's annoying - My boyfriend never calls at the end of a night out either. I wouldn't get too suspicious because when she's been out all evening then chances are that she's tired and forgets. Maybe she likes her freedom or just doesn't want to wake you if she knows that she'll be home late. Why not ask her to send a quick text instead just to let you know that she got home safely?
2006-11-22 22:31:40 · answer #2 · answered by nell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to care about her more than she cares about you, your relationship, or herself. You just want to know that she got home safely. She doesn't seem to care. Or is it possible that you don't trust her and are calling to check up on her and to make sure she didn't go home with some other guy ? Either way there is something wrong in this relationship. If you really care about each other, fix it now. Don't wait until the on and off switch is broken in the off position forever.
2006-11-22 22:19:06 · answer #3 · answered by David C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for every relationship to grow it needs space, trust and unconditional love.
If you do not trust her and feel she is making out sithsomeone else .. let her know what you feel and clear the air
2006-11-22 22:12:52 · answer #4 · answered by kwiksilver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wouldnt it be better to find someone closer to home, cos it doesn t sound like shes trying hard enough. how do you know u can trust her.
2006-11-22 22:11:51 · answer #5 · answered by blakorkid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then do the calling-up and say hello or some greeting.
2006-11-22 22:10:42 · answer #6 · answered by augustine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't YOU call HER instead?
2006-11-22 22:09:01 · answer #7 · answered by star_puk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WOULDN'T TRUST THAT .. SOUNDS SUSPECT
2006-11-22 22:08:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋