My now ex gf and i have been seeing one another for almost 6 yrs. when we met she had a bf who she had been with for 3 yrs prior and broke up with him for me.. about 6 months into the relationship she made out with another guy.. i let that go.. we broke upm a few times and she kissed ppl etc, but nothing too serious. in the past few yrs we have been breaking up and the 1st time u had sex with another guy, and then had sex with a few more. we ended up getting back together and breaking up again and she had sex with more ppl. we recently broke up, a time that i was not at all expecting. she ended up having sex with another guy. she says she does it to fill the void of not being with me.. she has never cheated on me, that i know of anyways. what should i do about her behavior, and should i just give up? she's someone i see a future with but the way she acts when we break up questions if she wants to be with me, or just needs a guy in her life.. thanks for any help you can give
2006-11-22 21:44:58 · 13 answers · asked by dancindork17 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like she thinks the grass is greener on the other side of the fence , but your a sucker who she knows she can reel in when shes finds herself single again . Sorry to say it man your being strung along a gal who is really into you wouldnt screw about , why do you keep breaking up ? im guessing its her that breaks up with you (i could be wrong ) ,. If i was you id say see you later to her and dont come back . Find a gal who cares about you and treats you well .
2006-11-22 21:51:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When spliting up there is no reason why she cant sleep with someone else BUT i personal think that its wrong.if she had any true feelings for you she would be trying to win you back or waiting for you etc. from what you say she seems to sleep or do things with other guys to get you jealous and to notice her. if you ask me your better off with out her because i see it as if you sleep with some else your second best.being with someone a long time means it will take a long time to get over it. i think you should have along think about it because it sounds like shes treating you like a right MUG.
2006-11-22 22:04:31 · answer #2 · answered by dragontears 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused you see a future with someone that keeps breaking up with you and basically cheating on you. Right now she is having her cake and eating it too, because you are allowing her to do what ever she wants and walk all over you.
You need to put yourself first as its not as if you are cheating on her, you need to find someone that wants to be with you and only you and not with everyone else.
2006-11-22 22:31:28 · answer #3 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, she is playing you like a fiddle. GET OUT! she has you on an emotional roller coaster. tell here the train stops here... you can get a serious relationship until you lose the baggage. yea it going to hurt. but not as bad as all those other hurt put together. you'll never get a family with this one.
2006-11-22 21:53:05 · answer #4 · answered by Ryan S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a very confused young lady-maybe it would be good for you guys to spend some time apart-to decided what it is you both want...it's not very nice of her to sleep around so close to a relationship-but some people are just like that.
2006-11-22 21:49:55 · answer #5 · answered by Mr_DJDJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she can't stop doing these things to other people, then find another woman. you deserve better...
i mean what will happen if you too get married.. you can't say you are loyal if you go kissing and having sex with other guy and say it didn't mean anything.
2006-11-22 21:55:59 · answer #6 · answered by lostandconfused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for you dude. You would probably be better to get far away from her and find a woman who will love you. Don't fear you will find a good woman count on it.
2006-11-22 21:49:13 · answer #7 · answered by lovetusk200 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you need to find a g/f who can be loyal to you.
2006-11-22 21:50:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey, she is not faithful nor will she ever be. Find you a good woman.
2006-11-22 21:52:13 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would let her go. It sounds too destructive for you.
2006-11-22 21:49:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋