and was it worth it
2006-11-22 21:29:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh yes, I had two sisters one older one younger at the same school as me at the same time, defending their honour (even though I didn't feel like it most of the time) was a full time job, a very bruising job. And yes it was worth it for my own satisfaction that I had done what I can for them, I didn't receive any gratitude!
2006-11-22 21:36:44 · answer #1 · answered by crownose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No as a matter of Principle I never fought for someone. Twice situations arose that required this and twice I chose to walk. Now am married. My principles have changed. I will fight for my husband but we wont tell him this.
2006-11-23 06:03:15 · answer #2 · answered by gutsa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes. i cant say was it worth it or not, because it always end up me getting the guy, and even before we got any kind of relationship started, i just leave him be. i just left him. i know it looks like i'm the worst human being on earth.
the thing about fighting for someone is that your heart makes you think there is no other way to find love with the "right" person but to fight for him/her.
sometimes in the situation seems your opponent is provoking you to do so by him/her being better than you.
the conclusion is, why do you have to fight for love? if he/her is the "right" one, why are you the one whose fighting?
i guess people just go for it for the rush or something. like i did.
i want the best for me. and i always be competitive to be the best in any sort of way. are you like that? its something to think about.
2006-11-23 05:44:33 · answer #3 · answered by icegirl_dayana 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes i have!! And no it is so not worth it. It is fight you can never win! And you should have to fight for someone!
2006-11-23 05:52:38 · answer #4 · answered by sparkling Princess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes but its only ever worth it if they are also going to fight for you. losing battle if its you fighting on your own. still glad i did though - i know i gave the relationship my best shot and it helped to give me closure.
2006-11-23 05:33:17 · answer #5 · answered by Empress 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i did n i thank God for giving me the strength coz it was really worth it.
2006-11-23 05:42:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i have and it was worth it
2006-11-23 05:47:08 · answer #7 · answered by nick23647@btinternet.com 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no but two people did for me. i told them not to, they still done it so i said i dont want either of you as i asked you not to fight for me!
so it was a waste of their time!!!
i dont like people fighting. especially over me, im a quiet loving person and i hate fights!!
2006-11-23 05:46:11 · answer #8 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i have and it was really worth it.. nothing could replace the gratitude that i could see in my friend's eyes
2006-11-23 05:34:06 · answer #9 · answered by giadda 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, I have supported them and helped them solve the problem, but not done it for them, if they cant do it themselves, they never will.
2006-11-23 05:43:03 · answer #10 · answered by Need_to_know 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋