Me and my fella had a stupid arguement last night so He fell asleep Which doesnt bother me so i decided to stay up watch a bit of tv. After that i just sat on the floor crying (that time of the month and i was crying over nothing - i just felt like a good cry, girls you kno what i mean!) He woke up and asked what was up so i told him i nothing i just felt like crying, he said i was lying!! We both went to sleep got up this morning i asked how he was and he ignored me, ive sent him a text this morning but nothing back!!!
Im 22 and we have been together 6 months.
2006-11-22 21:15:50 · 24 answers · asked by Kate 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi there the joy of males that they do not get us girls needing a cry now and again he will probably got it into his head that he has upset you more than you are saying and now is stressing about that ....MALES !! and they say that we blow things out propotion when you see him to night get a hold of him and tell him that you love him and give him a big kiss and let the arguement go its time to kiss and make up but if he doesnt want to then let him get onwith it and do the sulk thing from hell he'll soon give in ..good luck xx
2006-11-22 21:24:45 · answer #1 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean about the time of the month and all but you must still be crying for a reason. Even if it wasn't the argument you'd had. When I cry for what seems like nothing at the time when I Look back there has always been something which I wasn't admitting to myself like not feeling valued at work, something my friend had said, children growing up too fast etc.
Maybe you aren't as happy as you think in this relationship? Good look but it sounds like he's looking for a way out.
2006-11-23 05:33:11 · answer #2 · answered by JEC 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try and put yourself in his shoes, if you woke up and saw him crying his eyes out and you asked him what was wrong and he replied nothing I just feel like having a cry would you beleive that? Us men do not understand how women can cry without something being seriously wrong, because we find it so hard to cry even when our worlds have fallen apart. He has woken up after an argument with you, ignored his potential anger over the argument and showed you some compassion when he probably felt least like showing it and I would say feels pretty rejected by you not letting him in on the reason you were crying (thats how he sees it)
2006-11-23 05:33:22 · answer #3 · answered by crownose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 months is no time at all, you should still be on your honeymoon period!
Maybe he feels bad for the way he acted last night and this morning so hasn't text you coz he doesn't know what to say.
Or maybe he is completely convinced you are a liar because your emotions got on top of you and you had a good cry.
Either way, you are right, he is being an idiot! I would say its far too soon in your relationship to be getting into silly arguments like this. I'd get rid and go have some fun. Life's too short to be unhappy and stressed about silly things!
2006-11-23 05:24:38 · answer #4 · answered by Liggy Lee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all sounds like nothing to worry about, at first reading. However, your boyfriend's behaviour does in fact look a bit suspect:
1. he falls asleep while you are 'arguing' (having a discussion about the future, maybe? or his lack of commitment?)
2. his attitude towards your crying was at the very least insensitive.
3. he ignored your attempts at building bridges this morning.
4. he is ignoring your texts.
This all sounds to me like a guy who either does not want to be with you any more or who is so immature and self-centred that I sure as hell would not want to be with HIM! Leave him. No man should make you cry.
2006-11-23 05:44:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You havent been honest with him about the crying. Just tell him what is on your mind and then you can try and resolve it. He asked you what was wrong and you said nothing. He probably thought he was being nice asking you what was wrong but you threw it back into his face. He is probably angry and you wont let him in to your thoughts, now let him calm down. I would send a text saying sorry and have a chat with him tonight. Tell him whats on your mind dont be scared. Good luck x
2006-11-23 05:22:16 · answer #6 · answered by nicnac 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is not idiot, but men can not understand that someone can cry over nothing, so... when come home sit him down and explain that you are different and that girls sometimes need to cry, without any reason.
Don't ignore him back if you care about him, but also don't push too hard your explanation.
Simply, tell him and it is up to him will he accept that or not. but it would be stupid to ruin good relationship coz of misunderstanding.
2006-11-23 05:26:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok - women know the facts.....MEN DONT UNDERSTAND OUR MONTHLIES.! they never have and they never will. Please dont put yourself under the false illusion that one day they might get it. They wont.
I have been with my b'f for 3 years - and he still has a major panick when I feel like crying, he's only just twigged that its not him causing me to cry. Its taken ages for him to understand.
Just text him saying nothing was wrong last night, just that time of the month, hope your ok - see you tonight. and then leave the rest to him.
get some chocolate and munch your way through the afternoon.
2006-11-23 08:54:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just send him another text, explaining that you really werent crying for a reason. Tell him you're sorry if he thinks youre lying. If he ignores you, bring it up when you see him again and explain that he wasnt the reason you were crying,
2006-11-23 05:22:38 · answer #9 · answered by punkrawkprincess81 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the beginning of the end to me. You shouldn't be arguing after 6 months.
2006-11-23 05:21:27 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋