This question is only for guys.
My bf told me that he is sick of hearing me asking him question about other girls all the time. We have been together for a year and a half. He is an honest type. I know he thinks that I am annoying. I am doing this because I love him and I am jelous type of gf. Is there any advice from you guys?
2006-11-22
21:12:00
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Ok, i know I always questioned about the past. And also currently coz he is working in the airport with flight attendance. That's why I worry.
2006-11-22
21:16:49 ·
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Jealousy is a manifestation of low self esteem. If you ask him questions like this a lot, sooner or later you are going to get your feelings hurt. Don't worry about what other girls are doing. If you look to others to find what is attractive to your boyfriend, any kind of change you make would not be genuine. The more better you know yourself, the less you would be curious as to other girls actions and appearances. Be yourself and if that doesn't please him, maybe it is time to move on....CONFIDENCE IS THE KEY!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-22 21:22:50
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answered by jason 2
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sorry i am a female but yes guys do hate being questioned sometimes it's because they think you should just trust them other times it's because they are up to no good and they get all defensive. Unless he has or does give you a reason lay off the questions or you will probably drive him away you say he's the honest type then give him the benefit of the doubt. Your own insecurities could ruin your relationship talk to him about how you feel and then back off
2006-11-22 21:21:25
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answered by katlady927 6
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A guy isn't always willing to talk about their past. I definitely understand that he's the honest type. Perhaps what he had in a previous relationship, should stay there. No need to bring up the past and gossip about past loves, because he has more integrity than that. His past relationships are only his and his previous girls business. He's not hiding anything from you. It's just that he's over that relationship, and so should you be. Better to leave it alone.
2006-11-22 21:21:34
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answered by nang242 1
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If you are worried, you should have a reason. Has he done anything to make you worried? If not you need to back off. Sounds like you may have a good thing going. It would be a shame to talk him out of likeing you, and that is what you are donig when you constantly question his past and present without good reason.
2006-11-22 21:24:50
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answered by Texas Tiger 5
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once you're unmarried you could do inspite of the actuality that you pick. you could bypass to golf equipment and meet distinct adult men and get mutually all evening. It does no longer be perfect to attempt this in case you've been in a courting. I purely stay in relationships when I delight in being on my own with my boyfriend, staying in and gazing DVDs, better than I delight in partying.
2016-11-29 09:43:15
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answered by Erika 4
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It's extremely annoying for guys to put up with this topic. Past gf or even current female friends are his business not yours and has nothing to do with you. Be more self confident and realize he is your man now, love him!
2006-11-22 21:17:39
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answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5
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You are not only jealous and annoying, but also insecure, needy and pathetic. If you can't trust your man after a year and a half, do him a favour and dump him. At least then he'll be free to find someone normal.
2006-11-22 21:16:18
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answered by Liz 7
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I'm no guy, I am just answering for points, but I would say yes, from my experience they lie and minimise or maximise their past, depending on what will either shock you or make you feel better.
2006-11-22 21:16:38
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answered by Mel 2
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leave the past in ths past i say..!!!
2006-11-22 21:14:57
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answered by Anonymous
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stop saying it
2006-11-22 21:18:58
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answered by mikejolyemsegun2006 2
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