Weve being hanging out heaps for the past 3 weeks,go to heaps of lunches, movies, and even dinnner/and go out for fun with mates....she likes to touch me heaps, and also sit on my seat, and we always use to laugh. The past week has been really hard for me, i have to make a huge effort just for her to talk to me now?, as if shes annoyed with her, she wont tell me whats up though, and she now tried to make me really jelous, by hanging and hugging her friends, even her ex...The reason i didnt make the move, cause she broke it off with her ex a few weeks back, we use to hang and have a good time even before she broke up, so i really do feel she had something for me. What should i do, i have huge feelings for this girl, and i dont know what shes thinking?...is she mad at me or what?, we talk, but sometimes laugh,most times its kind of awkward now....what happened to the spark?im scared of losing her, really scared.....but really angry at what shes doing as well....
2006-11-22 20:59:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we use to txt each other alot and all the time, now i make the effort, and she doesnt text at all...she really does try to limit conversation,.,...i dont even know what has happened?why is she acting this way....im thinking of forgetting her and moving on....but i think i wont trust someone for ages now!
2006-11-22 20:59:54 · update #1
hi there you seem to be in a bit of a state about things .....she hasnt cheated on you ,she hasnt said anything but you are having a fit because of one thing she just needs a bit of space and im not suprized she is not saying anything to you ,i dont think i would be able to talk to you when you are in this mode ,,,she needs her other friends at the moment and thats nothing about you or there is nothing wrong with this its all part of growing up and im sure you must be the same ,give this girl a bit of space and txt her and explain that you know that she needs some space and you will txt her tomorrow and dont throw a fit if she doesnt txt back just be patient for a bit ,have you ever txt to say that you are thinking about her and you hope that she has a nice day ?? this type of txts re worth there weight in gold as you are saying that you love her enough to have her own space and both people need there own space every now and again ,if this is meant to work it will and nothing will stop it but if its not meant to work then im sorry but it wont work you and this girl will end up hurt and up set good luck i hope things work out for you ....take care xx
2006-11-22 21:14:23 · answer #1 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls enjoy the hunt. Once that's over, they loose interest. Don't give her attention anymore and she'll start paying more attention to you. If this doesn't work remember there are plenty of other girls out there.
2006-11-22 21:14:00 · answer #2 · answered by sum1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will you vanquish into nothingness if she dumps you? NO.
People bring experiences into your life.. not make you who you are... you can't stop her from leaving... you can't make her love you... be glad you had this time with her, continue on because it is her choice... not yours... if she stays or goes.
Life is giving you this great opportunity to live... good and bad and too learn from these experiences.. don't be scared.. it is life... if she is or isn't in your life it isn't up too you so love her just the same what ever happens.
2006-11-22 21:08:38 · answer #3 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Id forget about her and shell wonder what happened to you instead of the other way around.
2006-11-22 21:05:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be she is trying to figureout your feelings for her.dont be upset.girls get more attracted to you when you ignore them.try that.
2006-11-22 21:10:39 · answer #5 · answered by stunning 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋