i am verry shy guy and right now my Grand Pa and Father is prepare for my marriage .but problem is that without knowing the girl how can i marry but i cant say thats words to our family person till time i cant see her photograph due to our traditional culture .
now i want to meet her and share opnion then marriage plz tell me what should i do ?
2006-11-22 20:56:20 · 10 answers · asked by R12121 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, you are certainly in an awkward situation. You don't even know the girl and for all you know she could be a real bittch. Regardless, if you think it is important you will have to face up to it. It's kinda hard being shy, because men are expected to make the first moves to everything in any culture. I don't really know what you can do. But if she truly accepts you she will understand. Maybe try and communicate to her how you are feeling and hope she will have some compassion.
2006-11-22 21:01:57 · answer #1 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you have your own thoughts. Just put these into words and express them to the girl. I am sure she will not be mad at you for telling her your thoughts. She will appreciate it more Be a man now because soon you will be a husband.
2006-11-23 07:03:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are unlucky, your wife-to-be is shy too. You will just have to take all your courage, all your strength, and get over that shyness to confront your fears. It is hard but you can do it with enough motivation. Think of something that will help you concentrate, a reason to do it. It works for me and I am very shy, I think of my love when I need to overcome things, she gives me strength, think of something that gives you strength.
2006-11-23 05:04:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what can i say. its really hard to marry a girl that u didnt know who is she. when u meet her try to talk about soft topic. ask about her hobbies, what she like and what she didnt like, but dont asking her frankly about she agree for the married or not. try use soft words when u ask about her agreement to marry with you. coz some of women are so sensitive with words. and thats can make them sad.
2006-11-23 05:06:38 · answer #4 · answered by dena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well go and meet her. Talk to her for a while. Remeber you are going to share your entire life with that girl so be careful before deciding.
Good luck.
Cheers,
Jay
2006-11-23 05:40:12 · answer #5 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get her phone no and contact her you can do this through the people who is very closer to u in uour family or through your friends the second one will be the best way.
2006-11-23 05:05:55 · answer #6 · answered by valu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CHAT WITH THAT GIRL
DISCUSS IN DETAIL
IF SUITS YOURS PROCEED AHEAD
MARIAGE IS NOT A DAY'S AFFAIR
IT IS A LIFE LONG EVENT TO BE EXPERIENCED
2006-11-23 06:01:50 · answer #7 · answered by R Purushotham Rao 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
................... if you are not earning and depends on you parent to live ............ you better listen to them ................ on the other hand if you are working ......................... how can you be such a fool ............. your grand father of father is not getting married ................ you are .......... do you realise ................ ??
2006-11-23 05:18:30 · answer #8 · answered by spaceman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to make girlfriends as far as possible
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2006-11-23 05:32:12 · answer #9 · answered by dana brown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead and do it.
if u still shying look around for m......................?
2006-11-23 05:51:36 · answer #10 · answered by pp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋