the story is abt this person whos a very good frnd o mine...ya so hes gone to london for studies.... we were very very close for the 2 months before he left.... its like each of our days would start n end with each others msgs ... after he left i was all sad thinkin how il miss him n all..... but when he did it looked like hes outta my life............for the longest time.... i neva got any reply to my mails...i waited and waited for two months n i gave up....i used to cry so much tht y did this happen to me....i made up my mind thinkin he doesnt come online nemore... but yesterday i was shocked to see he goes on this site named ORKUT if u knw.... n he regularly stays in touch with all ppl.... i din believe it .. so i left a msg in tht public blog sayin i don care n all.... but later on i thought tht i really dont knw y things went this way.... but i saw a mail from him sayin hes very sorry for not being in touch and tht he misses me... wht do i do?? forgive him so easily??
2006-11-22 20:41:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im happy if u can forgive him after all humans are humans....as far as feeling sad, it happens...but u got to get up....live life...enjoy it in the good way...there are many who deserves u as u seems a sweet lady...(as a matter of fact, im also interestes for a friendship realtion with you...provided u dont mind.)
2006-11-22 20:56:02 · answer #1 · answered by mr_BIG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can very well understand ur feelings coz somewhat similar has happened to me too..i think u should ignore him for now...in sometime u will know whether he was speaking the truth or was he not bothered..coz he used to stay in touch with his other friends on ORKUT..so if he really cares he'll message you again..let him do that again and again..that will tell u the truth and then u have to decide whether u will be able to accept him as ur friend again in ur life..otherwise..just forget abt him..make new friends and never cry for him..u have already cried a lot and y to cry for someone who is not at all bothered..dont care for him..life will show you new n happy beginnings..so just go ahead...all the best dear..well if you wanna be friend with me do mail me..
2006-11-22 22:17:41 · answer #2 · answered by sayonaragirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just move on.if he realy lovs u n miss u than y did the hell he dindt gave u any msg.he was in touch wid other ppl but not wid u.so just leave him n start ur life again.best luck 4 ur new life .u deserve verry loving n carring person .that u ll get soon.all the best .keep smiling
2006-11-22 20:52:09 · answer #3 · answered by kiddu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you give him a chance.. after all what are friends for..
Also I do suggest that you try to open yourself up to other things.. Perhaps the thought of your friend may have filled you so much that you dont have anymore time for yourself or for your other friends..
I guess he just wanted space to think.. Just relax and be optimistic.
I know it will work fine for both of you :)
2006-11-22 20:57:17 · answer #4 · answered by axillon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
study this from me , each and each time a guy start up being impolite and start up getting annoyed on issues u did not no meaning there is something occurring . i think of he's seeing somebody else additionally cos he did not even took time to call u n he did not provide u a reason he did not gain this as meaning he would not care a pair of relationship anymore. i think of u could desire to grant him time by utilising not calling him or sending him any e mail n while he gets in touch with u tell him the final u submit to in thoughts he informed u that ur pissing him off and u did not elect to piss all and numerous off so u had to grant him a harm. tell him if he ever prefer u lower back he knows of the place to discover u , tell him u do not elect to combat him him. i think of u could desire to interrupt up with him cos he is going to interrupt up with u quickly or later . yet u do it earlier he does it to you . Am sorry to declare this yet i don't see your relationship heading any have been.
2016-10-12 23:18:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm... well if u really like him u should forgive him, i geuss u have to take his word. I would find out a bit more details like what hapened and all and tell him how u cried soo much. Then base your desision on those details, but remember love never fades
2006-11-22 20:49:01 · answer #6 · answered by david edwards 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont bother contacting him anymore
he certainly did not bother to answer your previous mails.
hes probaly got some new friends, new stuff, hes in a new world
youre not part of, spare yourself the pain.
or you could just demand an answer from him and disappear forever.
2006-11-22 20:46:42 · answer #7 · answered by globiaeon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably just got very busy over there and didn't mean to lose touch.....just let him know you were hurt but you understand hes busy and keep talking to him if you want to... if he did it on purpose then whats the point of keeping in touch? If he sincerely just got busy and didn't mean to lose touch then yeah forgive him...
2006-11-22 20:50:07 · answer #8 · answered by CoCo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u wrote 2 much 2 read. but i hope u make the right decision
2006-11-22 20:50:06 · answer #9 · answered by ghetto fabolous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not at all cares for you. dont give him any chance. he doesnt deserve you. carry on and refresh your life by adding some good friends. lesson learnt is a lesson learnt u know.
2006-11-22 22:36:29 · answer #10 · answered by udayy2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋