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I have notice now that i'm back in the dating scene. That females make comments about other females... Why dont they just enjoy the date and our conversation rather then commenting about another female in our vacinity? I hope that is what i mention in my question.. And not that there bi-sexual? ''if so''
I've been out of circuit way to long... lol
Otherwise why do they compare?

2006-11-22 20:34:15 · 9 answers · asked by FLEXizme 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Its called insecurity at that is about it, women are so self concious these days, its pretty sad but its a habit hard to get out of. Good luck honey.

2006-11-22 20:39:27 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Princess ♥ 6 · 1 1

becuase fashions are whats meant to be the standerd for elegance (extra like Photoshop skills and dangerous ingesting habit) and they favor to appear as if a kind to be loved earn respect and so on... i comprehend what it appears like. Im a male reliable searching yet im purely 5'6 so that's problematical fantastically even as listening to female say each and every of the time " i desire a tall guy" i will't make myself any taller seeing as both actually one of my father and mother are shorter than me and women dont seem to care how a lot of a jerk the guy is as long as he's tall *sobs*

2016-11-29 09:42:54 · answer #2 · answered by Erika 4 · 0 0

We do that so you realize that the woman in front of you is far greater than any other around you , probably because you didn't say it and we want you to, or because we don't enjoy the current conversation (you didn't say it was "all about us"). Start by showing that you are not interested in anyone but us and we will focalise on you instead than on other women. We just want you to be comforting and reassuring in the way you don't want to hear about others. It's like a game. "Other women may be great, but you are far greater, so let's not dwell on that my love.... Other women may be worse, of course, they don't stand the comparison with you, my love !" Get it ?

2006-11-22 20:48:41 · answer #3 · answered by Poppy 1 · 2 1

They compare because they have it set in their minds to evaluate others quickly. It's not only women but also men as well. In their minds, they go through a list of check off points, where we women evaluate others(mostly other females). Why? Because it's a neverending competition between us all, when we comment, we are either degrading someone or pushing them up...it's comlicated but in the sense of the female gender, that's to be expected.

2006-11-22 20:39:47 · answer #4 · answered by determinedpsycona 1 · 1 1

All they want from you is your attention; if you tell her how beautiful she is and give compliments to how she is dressed, then you will see the miracle; she will not compare herself to other woman.
So be gentle, polite and give her confidence; this is the duty of the man. Put these advices in your tool box and Good luck.

2006-11-22 20:45:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

o, ya, and u re not comparing yourself with outher blokes? who has more muscles, who has longer penis?who has better car? maybe u just don't say it out loud, but i bet my sweet tooth u re comparing yourself all the time. this is what life is all about - to be better than others at least in smth

2006-11-22 22:46:39 · answer #6 · answered by jacky 6 · 2 0

well, because of all the advertisements that are everywhere about the "ideal-looking" girl. nowadays i meet guys who check out other guys too... it's everywhere...

it's sad... :( sometimes i do it too, when i'm feeling inadequate... where's the self-confidence in everyone nowadays???

2006-11-22 20:39:50 · answer #7 · answered by wat_more_can_i_say? 6 · 2 0

because in case you werent aware females have a tendancy to be narotic crazy people. most of them crave attention and complements so they figure if they say their ugly they are looking for you to say they arent.

2006-11-22 20:56:59 · answer #8 · answered by NYC Princess of Contradictions 2 · 2 1

Believe me baby, i stand alone!

2006-11-22 22:31:19 · answer #9 · answered by Pardon Moi? 3 · 0 3

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