I'm 18 i met a bloke thru a friend last yr he was really good looking really sweet talking we ddint speak alot n i had no chance wit him. Until we started talkin i realised he n the mother were going thru difficulties n had bin 4 a while i listened gave advice nothign else we started seeing each other alot hed ask wot i though n stuff i helped as much as i cud n wud 4 any1. We started getting to know each other n b4 we knew it fell 4 each other we didnt have sex until at 2 months i always said if theres a chance we will stop u can try again etc always even when they broke up n he moved in wit me i still said if u think theres a chance then go 4 it i'll still b here. Anyway we went out 4 3 months i dumped him due to he moved out was surrounded by drugs and started gettin into a mess i wanted him to sit back take a look n c wot he really wanted as he was losing his kids me his family i said i wud always help. I got drunk n slept with this guy, i told him about it as he had a rite 2 know
2006-11-22 20:33:30 · 3 answers · asked by Zoe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He went mad at me it wasnt the fact that i had done it more that i lied to him about who i did it with n becos i did it in my flat but in our bed...
I felt terrible we tried talking but he got mad we went for dinner that didnt work we went back to mine he couldnt stand being there thou. Then a week later he asks to see me he'd met someone else i was fine i realised i had made the mistake it was my job to make it up to him. So he told me i said ok he wanted me to go mad i cud tell but cos i didnt he thinks i dont care i do i love him so much. I kissed him there n then he kissed me back we laid down so i said to him u cant like her that much then he told me they were only talkin etc nothign had happened. The whole time we had been apart even then we told each other we loved each other. Why did he do this was it to get back at me? I have a good head on my shoulders i am the one everyone comes to advice for ive always gone out with older blokes this one now is the youngest of all
2006-11-22 20:39:06 · update #1
I went out last saturday he txt me saying the mother was out i saw her everyhting was fine but they were sending bitchy txtxs to each other so i went to where he works and talked to him told him to just say they wud talk another time she had had a bit to drink. He then txt me saying he wanted to see me after work fine, i called him he came down we had sex and my mates all come ova on a sunday they couldnt believe it we were back to the way we used to be play fighting the lot... he went to see the kids i told him if it got too much he cud call id go get him..he did it was too much he burst into tears as soon as i got there..I dropped him off and he said hed come down later turns out the other girl was sat waiting for him at his...he neva came down..he turns up last nite not having heard form him since sunday sayin his phone is trashed he cant call..whateva why havent i been in touch...he shouldnbt have to do all the chasing etc..fair enuf..He then asked me last nite to move to Teneriffe
2006-11-22 20:43:06 · update #2
Teneriffe!! is miles away hew ants it to be just us he wants no more drugs he wants to start again hes given me 2 weeks i ahve a good job good family the lot but god i love him what do i do..
Sorry its really long but u need to know the details otherwise u wouldnt have a clue what im going through im torn
will it be worth it...
I dont have alot of money ive just cleared my debt off...
He has everythign he has the money its being transferred at the end of the month what shall i do whats the worst that can happen running away isnt the answer i know that
I told him if he wants me to consider it he has to sort out the kids the money and talk to his family b4 i consider seriously
Please help
2006-11-22 20:46:25 · update #3
No need i just called him got told he was in bed with the other girl now i will go mad i cud kill him love is sh**
2006-11-23 00:04:12 · update #4
you really didn't ask a question.... just some ramblings on but that is o.k. cause you probably feel better....
so... if you want too hang with someone that does drugs... there he is... if you don't... then I would distance yourself and move on.. sleeping around isn't good... buy hey... most have...
sounds like your not very clear as to where you going or what you want to do... school? Life? future? sounds like a mess right now...
better stand back and take a long thinker about your life... 18 is still young and learning by your mistakes.. this might be a good chance to make a run for it possibly?
2006-11-22 20:40:06 · answer #1 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's a loser. dump him & find someone else who doesn't have a drug problem or a wife & kid problem. u should have stayed away from this from the start.
2006-11-23 04:47:29 · answer #2 · answered by DAYNA S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
U did well to tell him...!
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2006-11-23 04:36:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋