With news of BA's ban on wearing a crucifix, what is your view on this?
I wear a small gold crucifix that measures 1" x 1/2" and is very thin in actual composition, it has no figure on it, merely a very small diamond at its centre. It has been around my neck as a symbol of my Christian faith for 25 years. Prior to this I wore a different gold one, with a figure on it, from my very early teens.
I never take it off, and never shall.
Sometimes it shows, sometimes, depending on my clothing, it slips beneath my neckline and I consciously bring it out and always have.
It is non negotiable as far as I'm concerned, it never leaves my person, and never will.
It is not a piece of jewellery, nor an icon, it is not a statement for other people, it is a reminder to me, of all that Christ has done for me, and how much I love Him. It reminds me always of my wish to emulate His way.
Your views?
Christian.
2006-11-22
20:18:42
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I am 61 and have been wearing a crucifix for almost half a century.
2006-11-22
20:20:08 ·
update #1
MyPreshus:
You are wrong... this is a question in all sincerity... I ask it to get a feel of public opinion on this issue.
2006-11-22
20:32:21 ·
update #2
To those who say my faith needs no symbol:
I thoroughly agree, that is not the reason why I wear it.
As a child I was in a coma, spent half my life in hospitals, and was made aware of god without indoctrination through NDEs.
At 28, I again survived a car crash, long story. My crucifix had been removed from me by medics. During a conversation about my miraculous escape, also queried by the surgeon and myself, a cross suddenly appeared on my throat, and startled those who saw it, a mirror was brought, and it startled and amazed and humbled me, He asnwered my question with this symbol, which faded slowly as we watched, and disappeared.
My crucifix was given back to me and I vowed to God never to forget and never to remove it... I will die before I do! He died for me, and saved my life too many times to count... saw me safe to raise my brood... the only prayer I asked... it's the least that I can do for Him.
2006-11-22
20:43:27 ·
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Hi, I am 63 and a spiritualist and I have been wearing my crucifix as a statement of my faith, my belief in God, the Divine Spirit and Christ for many years now. My crucifix is made of mother of pearl and, I believe, is french. It is very precious to me, not only because of my beliefs, but because my dear Mum bought it for me. She passed to spirit 3 years ago. She made such an effort to buy it for me. My sister pushed her in her wheelchair to the local antique shop where she bought it for a Christmas present. I only take it off when I shower as I am frightened of damaging it. Otherwise it never leaves my neck and if it slips behind my clothing I put it on show again. I would NEVER take it off for anyone. BA have no right to ban crucifixes. If they do that then those who follow other religious denominations must also adhere to the rules. This could really get out of hand - what next? We all have a right to which faith we follow, and as such should be allowed to wear a symbol of that faith. It is now getting ridiculous - not allowed to say certain words in case they offend, can't wear what we want. The whole world is going mad and I am sure God did not want this divide.
2006-11-22 20:28:25
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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I wear a red wooden cross about 4 inches tall. I wear it most times, but I do tuck it in my clothing if someone objects. Wearing my cross in public is important to me as it is a witness to my faith, an opportunity for people to discuss faith issues with me, and it is a reminder should I be provoked into acting contrary to my faith.
However, the people who object to my cross are people I know. They are relatives and employees of previous companies I worked for (my current employers have no objection). As far as these people are concerned, they already know I am a Christian so wearing the cross or not makes no difference. Also, if I cannot show I am a Christian by my actions, I have no business wearing the cross in the first place.
2006-11-22 23:53:21
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answered by waycyber 6
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I do not wear a crucifix or cross and here's why.
I do not celebrate death. I believe the real sacrifice that Jesus gave was to come back.
Martyrs are a dime a dozen. What sets Jesus apart from them? He came back.
Think about it, his enemies gloated over him, his fan club turned on him, and his best friends abandoned him when he needed them most. With human love he could have stayed in heaven and forgot about us, but he has divine love and that's what made him come back. And he didn't just come back and rip into his friends for flaking out on him. He said, "Peace be with you" instead. How wonderful is that!
Easter is the day we celebrate his biggest miracle, and it puzzles me as to why the Christian symbol represents something that happened on Good Friday.
Millions of Christians wear crosses and crucifixes and it brings them comfort. I'm glad that it does. I just don't find that kind of comfort in them.
My symbol of Christ's love for me is the sun. Here is my reason for that:
Jesus died, leaving people frightened and confused. Sunday morning came and so did the sun and the Son. Both of them came to bring hope for the new day and shed new life for those who see their rays of light.
2006-11-22 20:42:00
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answered by thezaylady 7
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You say that you wear your cross for personal reasons, as a reminder etc.
My first thoughts are that this is a lot of fuss over nothing, but in perspective, why would you need to display your icon if it's worn for personal reasons.
When contracted to a company, especially in a uniformed job, dealing with the public, your first responsibility is to be a representative of that company and to display the image that they wish.
Understandaby, BA don't wish to be affiliated with any religion in today's world climate of religous tension. On that note, the wearing of veils etc, should be disallowed also.
2006-11-22 21:14:53
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answered by le_coupe 4
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You do know what the 2nd Commandment states and what a crucifix is right? You are perhaps being overly sentimental over a man-made trinket. There is no mention in the Bible that you have to fashion a crucifix and always wear it. You have been deceived into believing such nonsense.
2006-11-22 20:42:17
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answered by Anonymous
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I wear a star of david around my neck, and I am proud of my religion. There is nothing wrong with your wearing a crucifix if it is what makes you feel close to your savior. I dont know what your talking about a ban on it? Ive not heard this.
P.S.,
I always thought it kind of strange to wear a cross, because its like wearing the very thing that killed your savior, but to each his own.
2006-11-22 20:25:33
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answered by arielsalom33 4
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if i were on your place, i won't get affected because it has a great importance for me too, though i don't wear any. when i was young , yes. but i still believe God is always with me, with crucifix or none. in your case, i think you should continue wearing it (like what you said..i agree)because it has been a part of your life and that's your own belief. regarding the ban thingi, i think you don't need to follow it. there are many rules and laws in the world that say, "do this and that" but not all of them are being followed. just think about this, other people doesn't follow rules though we know it is really bad, like killing others but that one, i think there's no harm in there.
and i believe, i should follow my heart.
you've got a great decision..
2006-11-22 20:29:16
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answered by rem-l 2
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I always assumed the crucfix WAS the cross with Jesus on it- what you are describing is simply the cross.
I also do not understand why Christians and Catholics wear a cross when it symbolises the pain suffered by your Jesus- why don't you hate it?
Anyway, I believe thoroughly it is your RIGHT to wear this cross and no one should tell you otherwise. No one should be forced to removed something sacred to them. If in doubt, I'd tattoo it on yourself as well!
2006-11-22 20:50:57
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answered by Personal Angel 3
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A Crucifix is a religious ornamment which is said to represent the travails of Christ. British Airways should learn to respect religious beliefs as this is not a piece of jewellery.
2006-11-22 20:29:47
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answered by Andrew O 2
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Well good for you!
I don't wear a crucifix but i am a Christian.
It seems these days that being an out and out Christian and wearing your heart on your sleeve is akin to being a leper in Britain.
The fact that you have been wearing it for 25 years shows a strength of character.
2006-11-22 20:23:37
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answered by bluenose 4
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