Does being apart mean not keeping in touch with my girlfriend? When's the right time to get back? Any indicators?
2006-11-22 19:51:46 · 5 answers · asked by Arthur 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, it just puts them off for a later date. Sometimes people THINK that it fixes problems because the two people remember their warm and fuzzy feelings for each other while they are apart. They will then cover over or dismiss the problems and get back together. Eventually though, the same problems will come up again, often worse because the suppressed feelings over the unresolved problem the first time will come up as well, causing the person to be even more upset, angry, etc.
Talking and working through problems is the only way to solve them.
2006-11-22 19:59:55 · answer #1 · answered by crx81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No being apart does not mean that you cant keep in touch. And for the most part people do benefit from being apart but only for a little while. I wouldnt suggest more than a month because a girl will think that means you dont care any more. But this is my opinion, my husband and I had never been apart in 5 years, then we took a couple of days apart and our relationship is better for it. I hope it all works out for you.
2006-11-22 19:59:52 · answer #2 · answered by rnjwells 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absence makes the heart grow fonder, they say.
Out here, we call it - cooling off.
But i dont think it solves anything.
Give it 3 or 5 days.
Then talk about it, make some compromise.
If things dont work out, then the pain will be lesser because you have now been accustomed to NOT seeing each other.
I say, time is a great healer.
2006-11-22 19:58:52 · answer #3 · answered by globiaeon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it happen... if there's a fate....
but sometimes it's gone.. cos one of u realize tat is a load that have been carrying for long time.. so, she let it go....
why dont just take a seat & talk to each other..
it just a nice talk.. talk bout ur false or her false...
i mean like......."honey, i really think tat u hurt me last nite, u shouldnt talk to me like tat..."use ur soft voice , but not yell out...
2006-11-22 20:00:24 · answer #4 · answered by Rosia R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
less time better
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2006-11-22 19:58:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋