matt died of brainstem cancer on oct 10 2006 , he was 17 , i seem to feel himm sometimes and smell him too
2006-11-22 19:47:03 · 18 answers · asked by sindi 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I am very sorry for your loss.
I have very recently lost my young mother and I know what you are feeling., I dream of her and she talks to me in my dreams.
I wish I had an answer as I wonder about my mom too.
Very sorry.
much love to you.
2006-11-22 19:58:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
I am sorry to hear that! The loss is irrepairable.
u have an exercise to do, see if u can do it.
ALL Alone in a secluded room.
Burn incense stick.
Since u sense feeling/smelling he is round the corner, wanting u to do something which he may have wanted to do, but could not do.
Take a photogtaph of ur son, keep watching his photo and try calling him by his name while seeing the photo, his pet name or the name he is fond of. Ask him small question which will have an answer of YES or NO.
Try this for 3 weeks, maybe u will get the answer. It could be in the form of dream or through other people.
Spend atleast half an hour, the same time the same place
2006-11-22 20:03:52 · answer #2 · answered by Venkatesh V S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for your loss, as a mom I know that must be so hard. I think that your son is with you and he will always be in your heart. I felt for a long time the presence of my mom when she died 20 years ago, it wasn't just a feeling, it was also her smell in the room. Everything is possible with God, and I truly feel that He brings our loved ones to comfort us because He is a loving God.
2006-11-22 22:44:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time I am joking around in here but I am sorry for your loss. He can be where ever you want him to be but remember he would want you to remain proud and strong. It sounds like he was very lucky to be loved so much. I am sure you did the best you could.
2006-11-22 20:01:27 · answer #4 · answered by snowstalker06 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am one that sincerely believes in the possibility of passed souls who come to earth sometimes to help their loved ones as angels would. I have relatives whom I have every reason to believe that they reside in heaven, but I have experienced their presence since their passing.
I'm sorry for the loss of your son.
2006-11-22 19:54:13 · answer #5 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
He is not in heaven, and he is still with you. As long as there is at least one person left who still remembers Matt, then he is not dead yet.
2006-11-22 20:01:51 · answer #6 · answered by =_= 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I bet he is with you right now.
I'm very sorry for your lose. That is so tragically sad. The best of wishes are sent to you. I have three kids, and your post has reminded me of how many of us can take life for granted.
Thank you.
2006-11-22 19:52:55 · answer #7 · answered by jay_p 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes that happenes for a time
Anything is possible with God all things are possible and he knows what we need.
I am so sorry for your loss.
I will pray for you and for Jesus to comfort you.
2006-11-22 19:57:16 · answer #8 · answered by Gifted 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I am so sorry. I am sure he is with you. Take good care of yourself and smile as he would have wanted for you.
2006-11-22 20:55:27 · answer #9 · answered by Luha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for your loss. If he had accepted Jesus as his Lord and Savior he is certainly in heaven. Rom 7:9 says, 'I was alive once without the law, but when the commandment came, sin revived and I died.' If your son was in a mental state that he cannot make a decision to accept Jesus as his Savior this verse gives hope that he is heaven because he would not be subject to the law or commandment. If you are saved you can believe your son is saved on the basis that when one family member is saved one's whole household is saved. Even when a person may not have confess before others to receive Jesus, the Lord can manifest Himself to that person and that person can call on His Name and be saved. There are possibilities for you to believe your son is in heaven.
2006-11-22 20:19:30 · answer #10 · answered by seekfind 6 · 0⤊ 6⤋