im 21 yrs old &my BF is 28. we live together but we never spend time together b/c he is always working,(drug dealer) & sometime he has 2 spend days away 4rm home. so 1 day he came home & surprised me by telling me i get 2 spend the day with him. so we in my car while he make his rounds.we stopped by his friends house. we chill there for a minute then my BF just out the blue asks me 2 drive back home(45min out da way) 2 go bring him the tv in the guest room over 2 his friend house. at first i thought that was odd cuz it wasnt a small tv,we live up stairs, &he wasnt going wit me. but i did what i was told. so i went. i come back he's not there. i call, he said he will be there in a minute, then hung up. i called back. he didnt answer. i asked friend to call he did. i spoke to my BF but he hung up again. i got mad sat in my car.he came walking around corner. he pushed me in face & said dont ever talk 2 him like that. then he told me 2 pack up my stuff and leave. in front of homeboy
2006-11-22 18:44:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well wen he answered his friend phone he wasnt expecting me to be on the phone, so i heard a female voice in the background. i said"oh is it like dat? where are u at?" he said he will be there in a minute then the phone disconncted. i tried calling back but he turned it of. so i sat outside in my car to wait for him. his friend is outside with me getting tv from my car.then 5 min later here comes my BF walking around the corner(he dont walk no where b/c he has too much money on him at one time.i thought it was odd for him to be walkin) but he walks straight over to me and muffed me in the face in front of his friend an said"***** who da **** you talking to like dat?..huh? I said "where u been at?" then he pushed me and told me told me to leave. I apologized to him but he yelled at me to leave so i did, then he called me and told me i need to pack my **** up and go back to my mama's house b/c im too disrespectful & i step outta line to much. i felt imbarresed b/c his friend saw it .
2006-11-22 18:57:45 · update #1
i tried to apologize for my actions, but he was too mad.. i called and called and called. but he quit answering, then he answered and told me to quit calling. so i went back to da house and fell asleep and waited on him to come home but he never came home and never answered......what should i do? was i wrong for asking him a question..did i mess up dat bad to get put out of the house?
2006-11-22 19:08:52 · update #2
You are in over your head. Leave ppl alone when their JOB is drug dealer. You'll end up homeless with aids if you keep running this hard lifestyle! Go home to mama now!
2006-11-22 19:03:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get away from this guy before he hurts you or kills you. He's a drug dealer. He's a bad person living off the bad needs of others. He will end up in jail and will be gone. Is that what you want?
Get out. Get away. Find a decent guy. A guy with a regular job and a regular life. Find a guy that totally respects woman. The guy you have now HAS NO RESPECT FOR YOU. Do you respect yourself? Prove it. Get away from this guy.
2006-11-22 18:50:50 · answer #2 · answered by Yourname Here 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl stop callin. no guy should talk to u like that stop talking orders from him ur not his f...in slave. two noone should ever erver hit u.espacially some who really does love u. i d say leave him. ur ll be better off and no he was soooooooooooo wrong. u did nothing wrong. and by the way he sounds and talks to u he's cheatin. he traets u badly u deserve more and better and he should show and treat u with respect 24/7.
2006-11-22 19:49:20 · answer #3 · answered by s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u definitely werent in the wrong. u didnt even do anything. u brought the tv like he asked. no offense but if hes a drug dealer i think hes either taking the drugs or just needs anger management classes. but he's probably takin the drugs. hope i could be of help.
2006-11-22 18:51:10 · answer #4 · answered by peace sign up, index down 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were wrong for even being with a guy like that better less living with him. He has "NO" respect for you what so ever ..and for him to put his hands on you whether pushing in your face or whatever its time for you to find a new place to live and a new guy too.
2006-11-22 18:53:17 · answer #5 · answered by common sense 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wasnt your fault so dont think it is. but it will be if you stay with him. he will get you killed eventually most likely soon. do yourself and your family and friends a favor and walk away. because your looking at the start of a violent relationship that will see you arrested or dead.
2006-11-22 18:59:06 · answer #6 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you weren't wrong. Get out of that relationship and don't ever go back. You might like the thrill of being with those type of guys, but you shouldn't have to put up with bullsh*it like that.
2006-11-22 18:49:28 · answer #7 · answered by Ben V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you were not in the wrong, forget about this loser. Im sure you know this is not the way a person deserves to be treated
2006-11-22 18:49:36 · answer #8 · answered by irishman_0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The main thing wrong with this scenario is that you're staying with this guy. You're in danger, both from him and from the cops. Run. Run fast.
2006-11-22 18:48:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
and I have an island I want to sell you !!!! *sigh*.........
and I am 122 years old and my husband is 25 yrs old..... think we will make it to our 50th anv. ????????
2006-11-22 18:48:26 · answer #10 · answered by Annie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋