has anyone ever felt like they r nothing?

Question

i feel like that sometimes..
i usualy feel ignored =[
does anyone ever feel like this? well my mom usualy makes me feel bad about myself.
but my grandmother makes me feel better when she is here...
but mostly if i do something wrong i feel stupid =/

sometimes idk what to think about myself u know?
and my mother makes it worse by telling me that im stupid and starts cussing me out in spanish .
if something is wrong around the house she usualy calls me and asks, "did u do this?"
or if she needs something then i have to get it for her like as if i were her servant.....idk what to do or think anymore
my mother makes me feel like i truly am a nobody...........

hasnt anybody ever felt like i have?

Answer 1

I'm sorry to hear about your situation with your Mum, have you spoken too her about it.
Adults often do and say things without thinking first.
You must tell her how bad she makes you feel and try to work on a better relationship with her.
Maybe your Grandmother could help you, she must see what is happening.
Good luck, just remember you ARE somebody.

Answer 2

Yeah lots of people feel like that at some point or another. But you sound like a great person and so try to look past your mother's comments. She must be going through some emotional issues and you are easiest to take it out on not cause its about you or your fault but because you are there. Just try be there for her - I know its tough - but she needs love - just show her that you love her. I'm so sorry that you have to go through this cause you do not deserve it. You are not nothing though you are unique and special!! You are you and there is no-one in this world like you. Perhaps someday tell your mom how she makes you feel and I hope she realises the pain she is causing you. Just be honest.

Answer 3

Almost everyone has felt the way you do. It is part of growing and developing and becoming an adult. Parents are a pain in the butt we know. Do your best to put up with them and someday when you are an adult they won't be so bad. Just be strong, study hard and keep telling yourself that it won't be very long until you are an adult. I know it seems like a long time.... but time will go by quickly.

Answer 4

Well you have to promise you won't tell anyone but I am 40 and at timesI still feel like a nobody. I don't know if that helps or not but you have to realize at some point in your life it really is about what you think of yourself and not what others try to make you think what they want you to think about youself. Unfortunately, most people have times when they let others affect their opinion of themselves way too much. Sometimes it helps if you look at someone else and think that they may have a low opion of themselves which is why they are making you feel that way too.

Answer 5

yes, i do feel that way sometimes, but not anymore...

it's a growing up stage, a realization stage... you need a friend at this stage--a close friend. share with him/her (even if it's your grandma) how you feel, what you think, etc. (make sure your friend is the sympathetic, understanding, and listening kind).

you'll get over this stage in the end--some take quite long, others are pretty fast... hang on, k? and sometime now, in the future, you need to talk to your mum (takes courage and the ability to talk like an adult--don't get emotional)

here's a *hug* take care and all the best! :)

Answer 6

Oh yes!! and evry single human being must've felt that way in some point in his life..Actually I am going through this 'ugly' phase right now..I feel I'm alone, left out..u know, worthless , maybe if I die now no one will even care...

But sometimes I just tell myself..why the hell..?! I am worth sth, even if others think otherwise...I AM WORTH STH..I try to look at the positive side of myself..this keeps me going.

Try always to stop thinking about other ppl , and their negative attitudes towards u...just think about thegood things in u..and try to move on

Good luck

Answer 7

you are not a nobody!! ive definetly felt like this before, and it caused me to become very depressed. i felt completely hopeless. i started reading a series of christian books, and they turned my life around!! im now a christian and let me tell you it feels so much better than feeling all alone and hopeless! just to know that god loves me makes me feel so happy!! and there will always be people in your life that will always nag you and make you feel bad about yourself, and i actually start to feel sorry for those kinds of people that do things like that.

p.s.god wouldnt have created you if you were a nobody!!

Answer 8

You're not a nobody. Your mom has issues. But it sucks that we can't pick our parents. My mom is like that too sometimes. Just try your best to ignore, it's hard I know. But there's nothing you can do about it. It's your mom. But don't feel like a nobody.

Answer 9

look, even i feel lonely at times. but you are not thinking of y u are like nothing. you are an individual and you are as important as any one else is. you never know how much important you are to others.

i will tell a temporary remedy. if you feel this is not gonna work , just leave it.

you think of a person. whom you like the most. may be it´s a film star, or a person who u can tell anything. and now think that he/she is always with you. tell your problems which you have buried in your mind as if you talk to a person near you.

it works for me. may be it will work for you too......

also if you tell your problems to a very reliable person it´s well and good. this give you confidence to resist stress......

Answer 10

I think everyone feels this way from time to time. I know i do. If anyone told you they didn't...they would be lying. Just hang in there and do your best to reassure yourself that you are something. Soon enough it will show. Good luck and i hope things smooth out at home for you.