i have a b/f we live like 3 hours away from eachother i only get to see him like ever other weekend but we talk on the phone for hours everynight. i like him alot even tho we fight all the time. i think im in love. but i catch myself likeing other guys at my school. do u think me and him will last?
2006-11-22 18:14:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off... how old are you? You sound very young to get too attached to someone you are talking to on the phone. I'm 29 and married. But before I was married, I was in your situation quite a few times. And every single time, it didn't work out. Not because love was not there... but because you start to get over a person really fast when you live far apart. You'll meet new guys... he'll meet new girls. And one of you will break it off.
I'm not saying with 100% certainty it wont last... but I'm just saying, it's not worth it to put all your time into a phone relationship.
good luck!
2006-11-22 18:17:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i have a long distance relationship with a boy in a completely different country and i suffer some of the same problems, so i understand exactly. we talk on the phone everyday and i cant stop thinking about him. no matter what anybody says about a long distance relationship, it can work. it bugs me how everybody has such little faith in these kinds of relationships!!! i know for a fact that my guy is "the one". i find myself crushing on people @ school but the reason i think we do that is because it feels like you want someone to fill that empty space that you get when you have a long distance relationship. these things are extremely hard and difficult. i hope that helped! and you can make it last if you really love eachother.
2006-11-22 18:30:11 · answer #2 · answered by nicole0306 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are able to final...my husband and that i've got been a protracted distance relationship! We meet and that i substitute into residing in Austin, TX and my husband in ny city! they are not consumer-friendly because of the fact they take countless capability and have confidence in one yet another. the final suggestion i ought to grant you is communicate approximately what you extremely need, if neither of you're will to circulate then it extremely cant circulate far, and do you choose for to comparable issues in existence. We pronounced those issues your no longer assume to on the initiating of the relationship because of the fact they are paintings and we did no longer choose for to put in each and all of the capability and not choose for then comparable issues! Plus my older brother and his spouse have been long distance for 2 years at the same time as he substitute into interior the marines and then my older sister and her husband have been additionally long distance for a twelve months! So if my kinfolk would not instruct that they are able to paintings no longer something will! only have relaxing and keep in mind that in case you're truthful with one yet another it could paintings! stable success!
2016-11-26 02:42:10 · answer #3 · answered by marez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your still going through school your probably still young and immature and relationships close or far wont last either way. One of you will want more and you wont be able too get it from eachother. Sounds like you have a crush and are not in love if you have these doubts, fight so much, and like other guys frequently.
2006-11-22 18:18:37 · answer #4 · answered by Cody B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. If the two of you are fighting all of the time and you are catching yourself looking at other potential boyfriends then there isn't a chance. The only way long distance relationships work is if they are strong and from the sounds of it ....your relationaship is being held together by a string.
2006-11-22 18:16:49 · answer #5 · answered by amandaped25 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I highly doubt it. Fighting is normal but talking over the phone doesnt satisfy your needs and neither his. If your looking at other guys, he could be looking at other girls, and knowing majority of guys, they like to have their fun. You know its love when your really upset you dont see him and you reach the point where you cant take it anymore and move up there with him. Wouldnt you prefer to go out and have fun without feeling the guilt anyway? we are young!!! we are meant to be rocking it not married with kids just yet
2006-11-22 18:19:54 · answer #6 · answered by I wonder 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no sweetheart... first of all you are young and if you are catching yourself crushing on other guys then you arent in love... when you are in love you dont see all those cute guys at all... long disteance relationships do not last most of the time and seem like they won't when you're young and in school around a ton of other hotties... dont settle for less either...
2006-11-22 18:18:29 · answer #7 · answered by heclee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on if you want it to work..and 3 hours drive is not considered as long distance...if you want it to work, it will work. if you have reservations about your feelings towards him, then the distance will contribute towards a break up
2006-11-22 18:18:50 · answer #8 · answered by nirvana 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The answer is NO! If you were Truely IN LOVE.
You would not have doubts about it working and you certainly wouldn't be interested in other guys in any sexual fasion.
2006-11-22 18:18:09 · answer #9 · answered by mistique1818 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no way! i mean, try to stay good friends, but end the relationship, you will regret it if you dont.
Kracker
2006-11-22 18:16:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋