i moved out bcuz of my dad touchin me but i miss home?

Question

i moved ouot of home bcuz of my dad touchin me but i miss my mum. wat sould i do?

my mum know bout it but she doesnt believe me

Answer 1

I think you have made the right decision. Breaking the cycle is the hardest thing you can do in you life. I was abused mentally,sexually and physically as a child and I didn't get away from it until I got married. I think you are a very brave and special person for standing up to you dad. Because It is wrong for someone especially the man that is suppose to be your protector to hurt you like that. And your mom should put you first. You are probably missing your mother's love, that all girls need. Try to go to counselling,and find a female that can and is willing to give you "motherly love".

Answer 2

You're better off away from him. I think pressing charges against him for sexual assult would be the best thing to do. If your DAD's touchin' you in that manner, then he has a REAL problem. As far as your mom goes, she shouldn't have a problem visiting you where you live. If your dad gets locked up, maybe you could move back at home with your mother. Just ask her if she'll come first.

Answer 3

Report him. Talk to your mother about what your father has done. Get a freckin' restraining order if you have to with your father but don't jus let him do that and you mom not even know,unless you mom knows. Find out if your mom will kick him out, i know thats kinda odd to ask. Or the only other option is to stay away and forget your mother. YOU CHOSE!

Answer 4

GROW UP.
it even happened with me actually it is done by either parent to check the child's harmones so that the child is normal or not.
am sure even your dad havn't presurrize you after that even he must have felt bad the way you reciprocate.
i think you are a loser that its few parents who take that initiatative to go in that much deep concerns for their kids.

if i were you i would have gone back to home and said sorry to the dad.and your mother is not believing you is because its the combined effort of parents and am sure your mom must be aware of what your father is trying to do though the way you narrate the story to your mom about the incident had let her reluctantly said that she don't believe.

Answer 5

You should tell your mom how strongly you feel about the situation. Thoroughly explain how inappropriate his treatment towards you is. I wouldn't move back. Don't let that creep near you! I'd just keep in contact with my mom through email, letters, etc. Invite her out for luch or something and tell her your dad's not invited. Keep it a secret between the two of you.

Answer 6

Again I am reminded of why I try to stay away from this category.
All these heartbreaking stories.
If your Mother doesn't know about your situation, she must be told and then you should both report that man (I'm loath to call him your father), and have him charged for the criminal he is.
No way should you be the one that has to leave your home.
Talk to your Mother or school counsellor.

Answer 7

i had the same problem im 16 and just moved out three weeks ago. i still call to talk to my mom and i ask her to meet me at a place. so try to find a place to be with her and not at home. i now live with a friend and her family.

Answer 8

Could you try giving her a call? Try and talk things out, see if you can sort something out.

You are loved. She does love you. There are people who care, and you can be an amazing person. Don't give up.

If you need some help try:

http://www.ndvh.org/

http://suicidehotlines.com/

http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&lr=&q=hotlines+abuse

Good luck!

Answer 9

well i think your dad must be facing some kind of tension or bad state of mind when he did that.well man are like that,believe me,its nothing to worry sometimes they are so lost and after all its your father who have all the responsibility of the family.I THINK YOU SHOULD JUST GO BACK and hug your parents and as far as your dad is concern than give him a tight hug and tell him that you are his daughter!!
if he persists doing anything wrong just walk straight to your mom.

Answer 10

was your dad drunk when he did that ?

anyways things sometimes happens and its better to forget them and go ahead with new things.i think your dad has learned the lesson as you left the house.
so you can go back to your home now and be with your mom,as a token that you have forgetten everything just react that nothing happened as it will ease the situation.