Personal question
My X gf wants me to take her bacK!! Saying shes changed
So DO PEOPLE EVER REALLY CHANGE :???????
2006-11-22 18:09:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only if they really want to! Most don't.... too much work. There is that select few who had a lapse in judgement and are really sorry for their mistakes. You need to give her some time to prove she has really changed and is ready to be the person she wants to be for herself and for you.
2006-11-22 18:13:56 · answer #1 · answered by kymmy_kins 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People never change. If a relationship doesn't work out the first time around, there is a reason and giving it a second chance will only make things worse. Sure she may seem like she changed at first, but chances are, she hasn't.
2006-11-23 02:10:38 · answer #2 · answered by amandaped25 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
look honey...
what was the reason it didnt work out?
if it was her attitude i think you should give her a chance because if shes willing to change for you then you must mean something to her but the first thing she does that proves she hasn't changed...YOU DUMP HER
cause she obviously lied by telling you she changed
good luck..
btw:if the problem was her cheating then i suggest you dont take her back because if she didnt appreciate you the first time why would she appreciate you the second?(once a cheater ...always a cheater!)
much ⥠-peace
2006-11-24 02:22:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I read what you wrote as an answer to that guy. You said get a dictionary. I say get a t shirt. You turn me off because you like yourself too much. I look good but I don't need to post it all up there. Girls like guys who don't look like they are turning themselves on. As for your question, why do guys ask for advice? Women like the men to be the leaders. I wouldn't take her back, you will forever not trust each other. I can't say yes to anyone who is gone now. Besides it better to find out what else is out there!
2006-11-23 14:24:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
I think so. Yes. As to your X that's on you. Maybe you should try it and see if she has changed. If not I'd dump her again and not take her back. Unless she does actually change.
2006-11-24 10:39:32 · answer #5 · answered by x_cutz_x 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well...they mellow. But big changes? Not usually. Cheaters cheat, liars lie, bad attitudes return.
2006-11-23 02:15:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
they never change they just want yah to make other people jealouse so they can't have u
She may just want u because u have a fit body and make girls jealouse
Is it love that she wants or hottness SHOULD be your question and this one that u asked
2006-11-23 11:58:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Damn man! i can see why she wants u back.
Anyway, yes and no
yes:as in they do in emotion and habits etc.
no:technically, each human is design differently like a comp. each with a permanent "code". U get it?
2006-11-23 02:13:24 · answer #8 · answered by ▐▀▀▼▀▀▌ ► Randy ◄ ▐▄▄▲▄▄▌ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, people CAN change, that is no question.
but they are usually not willing to.
without knowing her it is hard to judge, I'd personally say people don't change "just like this".
2006-11-23 02:16:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
people do change,but...you gotta ask yourself do u wanna go thru what ever she put you thru the 1st time again?
2006-11-23 02:15:17 · answer #10 · answered by gator_ladie707 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋