how can i improve my appearance?
2006-11-22 18:03:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude even though I do not know you - you are not ugly. That is the first thing your self-image is your problem. Sort yourself out! If you do not like your own look and you own self then girls are not gonna feel you confident vibe and thus not notice you. Be more confident!! Be youself your true self will be attractive enough to some girl some day.
2006-11-22 18:06:59 · answer #1 · answered by LA 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I've noticed, with girls more than guys, girls tend to put less emphasis on appearance and more on personality, sense of humor, honesty , and commitment.. Don't give any crap about you being ugly either.. God made you in his image just like everyone else and it's time you stand tall, get some self respect, and confidence and jump into life wide open... By the way the last three are a big hit.
2006-11-22 18:11:37 · answer #2 · answered by john316tdh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAHA!!!!!! It's not your appearance. As long as you don't look like one of your parents was a ape, your looks doesn't matter that much.
Trust me you dont want to change. It'll make you look like you tried too hard. My suggest, change your behave slowly and get in habit of your new behave. Also change your wardrobe gradually over time.
Trust me on this one, I got compliment on how good I look at least once or twice a day. People often admire me and stuff. but yet I have very little luck when it come to date (may because I'm deaf and communication by paper and pen...)
2006-11-22 18:07:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
accoring to social psychology, the world frowns on physical deformity or if the face isnt that symmetrical.
social psychology also says that looks do matter in the ONSET of opinion forming. but in the long course, looks doesnt matter **** anymore and it all comes down to how you act or think.
act great man. that's the best make to improve. if you act it out you'll look better than acting ugly. just dont overdo it.
2006-11-22 18:10:34 · answer #4 · answered by psychmetanoia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all u got to change your thinking. The Bible says, as a man thinketh in his heart so is he. So in yoru heart if you believe u are ugly u will be. Begin to see yoruself as God see's you. The Bible says you are fearfully and wonderfully made. it says you are the apple of his eye. It says you were create dinhis own image. You are handsome and wonderful to God, but you got to believe an dknow that you are. Next if you want to change soemthings, look at what you want to change: wieght, skin issue, hair, etc. Beginto look into those things, the internet is a great tool and begin to make those outside changes. But I tell you the truth, the OUTSIDE WILL NOT change how you feel about yourself on the INSIDE. You got to pray and ask God into your life an dask him to help you to see your self as he see's you, which is marvelous.
2006-11-22 18:09:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks are important but girls are attracted to other things too. Like money and class. If u have a nice body that is strong and cut. Girls like that, trust me. Wear nice in style clothing and have clean and nice and cool hair.
2006-11-22 18:11:24 · answer #6 · answered by gangsta_gymnast 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I typically like guys based on personality. Most guys i have dated people are usually surprised about looks wise. But they have great personalities, make me laugh, are caring etc and that makes them more attractive to me. Just be a genuine guy and youll be fine. I mean typically grooming is needed like showering and shaving, clean clothes, deoderant. Just be confident and be yourself.
Honestly I have thought guys were hot and then once they started talking found them very unattractive due to their lack of personality. LOOKS ARE NOT EVERYTHING!!
2006-11-22 18:07:30 · answer #7 · answered by c m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey thats not true .... it u got a goodpersonality girls will be attracted to u lol the'll find some good feature and focus on that...btw no ones really ugly its all just a point of veiw ..u may be very attractive to someone...
2006-11-22 18:06:47 · answer #8 · answered by lost 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The person you should look for is not one that will judge you on appearance but by who you are. I promise someday the right person will come along and they will love you because of who you are. A true partner does not judge by appearance.
2006-11-22 18:07:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
U wouldn't want someone who's just attracted to ur looks. (: Just appear presentable-- shave everyday, make ur hair neat, dress neatly. Have a gd personality too! U're sure to attract someone this way! (:
2006-11-22 18:08:14 · answer #10 · answered by x_2many2list_x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋