i've known this guy for 11 years, since we were 5, but we lost contact for the past 6 years. i found him about 2 months ago and we've hung out a couple times already. but the second time he reached for my hand and held it (fingers weaved) as we walked around my neighborhood, he also had his arm around my waist. when we sat on the couch he laid his head on my lap and pulled me close to his chest. when he left he gave me a long hug then said he'd call me...
but he never did. and about a week later he emailed me saying "i think i've been misleading you. i just wanna make sure we're just friends." i don't understand what he's doing. and the only thing i can think of is that he was dreaming of me too much but had other priorities to attend to and the thought of loving me but not being able to be with me crushed him so he told me THAT to make himself feel better... ?
2006-11-22 17:59:12 · 7 answers · asked by white tea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he has feeling towards you but, wishes to remain friends because he values your relationship together?
2006-11-22 18:05:35 · answer #1 · answered by Elizabeth B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably has nothing to do with you. He may have been living in the fantsy of what was yrs. ago. I think the real question thats most important is Did YOU really like him like that?? B/c if u didn't, then good riddens to bad rubbish move on. If you did like him, think whay you thought u did. U haven'; beenin contact for yrs. maybe just the idea of being in like/love w/ a memory was posing as something more????
2006-11-23 02:04:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve better he would take what he wants from you but not actually have true feelings for you
2006-11-23 02:03:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a common question for you
2006-11-23 02:01:51 · answer #4 · answered by forex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry you have been had by this man
i wish you all the best my dear
you can do better
2006-11-23 02:03:26 · answer #5 · answered by katie r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him...and see what the problem is..
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2006-11-23 02:04:17 · answer #6 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is saying he's not interested in you romantically.
2006-11-23 02:01:33 · answer #7 · answered by venus11224 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋