...If he says he doesn't think anyone is prettier than me and if he says he doesn't look at them sexually? I have never caught him flirting or checking other women out. Can you explain WHY you think the way you do and not just answer yes or no. Please.
2006-11-22 17:54:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do YOU believe there are other girls who are prettier than you? If so then your boyfriend probably thinks so too, although he's obviously trying to protect your feelings, knowing how insecure you are. There will always be someone prettier, smarter, richer. Stop comparing yourself to them. What matters more is that your boyfriend cares about you more than he cares about those prettier women. How can I tell? Because he actually puts up with your crazy insecurity. I looked through your questions and they are INSANE. You must be a nightmare to be in a relationship with! He must care about you a lot to actually put up with all that.
2006-11-22 18:02:13 · answer #1 · answered by monkey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a double edged sword. He answers no, he's lying. He answers yes, you punch him in the mouth. How is a guy suppose to answer a question like that. All men look at other woman. All men have fantasies regarding other woman. If he doesn't, he's not a man. We just don't act on them because we love and care about the person we are with. So, in order not to get our as# kicked, we answer no, of course not dear so we can live for another day. That doesn't mean we act upon those thoughts.
2006-11-23 02:03:34 · answer #2 · answered by JS 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Next time you and your b/f are in the vicinity of sexy woman.
Look to see if your b/f nose is growing... lol
Seriously
You ever heard the term '' It's OK to look at the menu. as long as you don't order''
However i shall share this with you, I've experience only one time.. Love at first sight.. it was so powerful that i told her that very same day! she will be wife with in a year. Thus i actually stop to notice any other woman sexy or not! We did get married. Unfortunately I had to divorce her due to finding out she was once a man... lol
Honestly she was unfaithful thus bringing forth the divorce...
I believe your in a healthy relationship keep saying the 'I love you's' and the strong communication open.. Most importantly be honest no matter what?
Good luck,
2006-11-23 02:33:24 · answer #3 · answered by FLEXizme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Answering this from the basis that he is a good guy, then I think hes telling the truth. I was once engaged and madly in love, I noticed other women who looked good but genuinely believed that my girl was the best looking girl on earth!! I just think he really loves you. My girlfriend would ask me the same question, and she found it hard to understand that I thought this way, but in time I think she knew that I was being truthful, "actions will always speak louder than words!!". If he treats you like his princess than be happy you have found someone who cares for you so much.
2006-11-23 02:05:31 · answer #4 · answered by Flumma 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I disagree with Amanda. If at all, men to do not look for other women and compare them to what they have at home.
I'd rather say that men (and women, too!) look at nice "things"; if I like a car, I will look at it when there is one. If there is some beautiful architecture, I will have a look at it. If there is a beautiful women, why not looking at it? This has nothing at all to do with comparison, and it has completely nothing sexual.
Don't misunderstand me - there are fellows who look after every single butt and pair of **** they can set their eyes on. I'm not talking about these geeks. I have no excuse for them, besides something wrong with their hormones perhaps...
In your case, I don't see the problem. Your bf says you are the prettiest girl on earth for him, why don't you believe him? You have never seen him checking other women out, so why should he lie? Trust and respect are the foundation of every relationship - you should work on that.
2006-11-23 02:07:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is probably lying. I said the same thing when I was totally in love with my dream girl. I think most guys go through this with their first girl the get obsessed with you feel like she is so hot and you don't care about the other girls around you. He is probably head over heels for which is a good thing but with some time expect him to start noticing other girls don't get jealous ( it shows insecurity) but it's part of a guys biological nature to see many girls as good looking, but as long as he stays true with you and keeps his stares and flirting in check be happy you have one of the good ones.
2006-11-23 02:03:43 · answer #6 · answered by Ben V 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he really loves you, don't break something that doesn't need fixing.
Not ALL men need to flirt or look at other females. You already said you have never seen him act this way. Be happy with what you have and don't drive him crazy asking insane questions.
2006-11-23 01:56:47 · answer #7 · answered by kam_1261 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid he is lying to you. That doen't mean he doesn't love you or that he wants to cheat on you tho. Read the book, "Every Man's Battle" or "Healing for Every Heart" both by Fred Arterburn (sp?) to understand why I say this. These books will help you see male sexuality in a way you never could have dreamed on your own. It will also help the two of you be much closer.
HTH!
2006-11-23 01:59:42 · answer #8 · answered by Mommy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All men check other women out and think they are prettier then what they have at home. He lies to you because that is considered a "good lie". If he really told you what he thought you would get upset or question yourself on your looks and worthiness of him. I am sure that he loves you,but it is human nature for men to do this. Don't dwell on it though...atleast he is trying to boost you p by telling you this and that indded shows he cares for you.
2006-11-23 01:57:08 · answer #9 · answered by amandaped25 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It really isn't a matter of , Is he--Isn't he, It's a matter of Do you Love him enough to trust that he knows his own mind and would not lie to you.
Trust is the ground work for a lifetime of happiness, Doubt will end what may be the best relationship you will ever have, So be careful.
2006-11-23 02:00:06 · answer #10 · answered by mistique1818 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋