me and this guy are on a "one week break"
its been one day and i really miss him
does he miss me too and will he still love me next week as much as he does now, even more or not at all?
2006-11-22 17:53:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most of the time, it makes your love stronger. Good luck.
2006-11-22 17:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by avery 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to answer you by describing why you take a break in a relationship.
1) Almost always because you are not sure if you want to continue or not.
- The break allows you to get away from the responsibility of commitment so you can clear your head and make your decissions outside of the emotions.
2) The other reason for taking a break:
- you are getting too emotionally involved too soon and need to back up a little.
In this case you just don't know if you can trust this partner or not.. You don't feel you know them well enough yet, and you're already emotionally envolved to a hurting point (or moving in that direction) and you don't want to get hurt if they are not right for you.
3) My thoughts:
- a one week break isn't enought time for anything serious so my guess is #2 above.
- If your relationship has been going on for 6 months or longer then there is no doubt he is missing you..
- I'm optimistic that things will be fine if this is the case.
- On the other hand, if it's been less then a couple of months, then he may not be thinking about the relationship with you at all... he may be considering relationships in general.. like, maybe he doesn't want to make that kind of commitment period.
- hard tellin, not knowin... I hope the best for both of you.
2006-11-22 18:09:16 · answer #2 · answered by gjm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm...that kinda depends...
Is this a ...break from seeing each other..or a break from the relationship?
If it is only a break from seeing one another...then the love can do nothing but grow stronger. If you let something go, and it comes back, its yours forever... It also makes the reunion that much better. My boyfriend goes to a university in another state, and i'm younger so I'm stuck here...so i don't see him for months at a time..but i know we absolutely love each other..and each day with the horrible pain of missing him is another year assured we'll be together.
If it's a break from a relationship...then that's just ridiculous. I could never quite understand why people would do such thing. That's like going to the store and saying, "Yeah...this shirts really nice and all..but why don't you put it on hold for me while i shop around a bit more". If you love someone unconditionally then you want to be only with them...there is no other partner. I may be naive...but falling out just shouldn't happen.
xx!
2006-11-22 17:59:53 · answer #3 · answered by etiam_advenio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what the circumstances are for your break. did he do something wrong, or did you? he most likely misses you, in one level or another. personally, i don't like "breaks" because that gives both parties the chance to look around for other potential people if you know what i mean. you guys need to figure out what you really want, and if you really want to stay together then work on the problem together. if you both are having doubts, maybe it's best to break up.
2006-11-22 17:58:18 · answer #4 · answered by yeah.whatever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Taking a break is a good idea, you'll both have time to figure things out and paln on whats next on your relationship. You just have to wait. See if everythings back or not.
2006-11-22 18:01:14 · answer #5 · answered by Singing Marla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my situation, I wish it made me love him less, but it makes me love him more...
2006-11-22 18:01:24 · answer #6 · answered by Brown Eyed Baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋