Should I tell My Secret?

Question

Im in love with a girl who I havnt had sex with yet.Shes not a virgin but feels not quit ready but yet she tells me she does want me.I never force her or get upset but she knows Im very frustrated(been with her for almost a year).Shes knows about my sex history.She knows that Ive never "Made Love" to any one Ive had feelings for but have only had "Sex" with Meaningless flings.But that was when I was younger.Im 27 and now think that Im a very good guy.Im not a player despite my past,were all entitled to be young and dumb.Thing is the last girl I had sex with I was unprotected (only time) I was scared but thank God no kid,no STD's.I told myself I wouldnt have sex no more unless I was In Love.Ive since had girlfiends and have messed around sexually but have never had sex with them.I was 20 yrs old,do the math.Now Im ready to go with my girl and Im going crazy.Its ok if you think Im lame,none of you know me.Should I tell her this so she'll understand my frustration?You think shell believe

Answer 1

It is always good to be honest. You can tell her all of this, but be prepared if she doesnt believe you. Most girls wont believe you because they will be thinking that you are just trying to sleep with them.

Answer 2

Awwe that`s so sweet. yahh you should tell her, she might understand she might not, take a chance.
--that sux not to have had sex in 7 years i`d cry..l0l..i like it a lot.
i`ve only been with 1 person though for 2 years & i`m still with him today, and we`re getting married fall `07.

Answer 3

wait for her. Just manage and be loyal. I too have had moral dilemmas with my guy. Just hang on. She is testing you. Prove your love

Answer 4

i think you should tell her and yes i think she will understand....keep your head up and stay strong!!!!!Good luck!!!