i have liked this guy for like 4 months now and he has told me that he loves me and has kissed me. however, he all of a sudden just started ignoring me and when i told him i still really liked him, he said he wasn't sure if he liked me anymore. after saying that, he hasn't tried talking to me about it for several days although he casually says hi. he really hurt me and i have no idea why. any ideas on why or what to do?
2006-11-22 17:21:19 · 14 answers · asked by carmerito 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how old are you and this guy?
If you and he are teenagers, chances are he told you he loved you so he could "get lucky". Then, maybe he realized it might take more effort and time that he doesn't want to give.
Just ignore him, maybe he will go away. Wait on someone who will love you for yourself, and continue to love you no matter what. Give yourself some time, things always have a way of working out. Always respect yourself.
2006-11-22 17:32:51 · answer #1 · answered by sylvrrain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you have sex with him? That's the kicker, guys will say anything to get into a girl's pants. Once its done though, they'll either stick around or get away faster than a freeway chase.
If you didn't sleep with him, then he's a flake and a poser. Move on and find someone you deserve that is good enough to deserve you.
2006-11-22 17:24:14 · answer #2 · answered by Takfam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems he just had a change of heart. It is impossible to know how he really feels unless he tells you. Try the mirror trick. If he doesn't want to be with you, you don't want to be with him. If he doesn't love you, you don't love him. If he ignores you, you ignore him. If he casually says hi, you do the same. If he's not hurt, you don't be hurt. It's a good trick.
2006-11-22 17:27:58 · answer #3 · answered by oh really 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buddy .. i am a boy and it wil be bad to comment that most of us are like this... its not because we want to ditch any gals.. but u people seldom understand the point.. and may be u would have been so conservative with him... also i would say he had no intentions with u other than kissing.. IGNORE IT BUDDY.... NOTHING IS PERMENANT IN THIS WICKED WORLD... find someone who loves u n cares u more... take life as it comes.. he would have not got what he expected ... and may be he realised that u cannot give hime what he needed.......
2006-11-22 17:26:29 · answer #4 · answered by Ronnan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounded like he wanted more than just a kiss and you didn't give it to him, so he moved on to some other chick or not. Time to give him up and move on. Sorry you got used.
2006-11-22 17:48:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The honeymoon is over. Plain and simple. After that point, that's when you know you have something or not.
2006-11-22 17:23:30 · answer #6 · answered by Jolly Green 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, 4 months is a gift , walk away, 4 months is not really love, its a desire for love
2006-11-22 17:23:28 · answer #7 · answered by dwill604 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hez a jerk and u deserve some1 better... Move on. Dont let it effect u 1 bit :)
2006-11-22 17:26:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are soo freakin lame and use us for one thing. and once they get it...there doen with us. im sorry this happen to you.<33
good luck and jsut forget about him!!
2006-11-22 17:24:54 · answer #9 · answered by FairChild 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all guys are like that you know..
there are really just some stupid people like that guy
2006-11-22 17:30:45 · answer #10 · answered by Superior 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋