I don't think I have a chance with him, specially because he is currently dating someone and he seems to be really into her. However, sometimes I think he gets jealous of guys I date. I want to tell him, but I don't want to lose his friendship. He's always there for me when I need him.
2006-11-22 17:18:42 · 12 answers · asked by Loony 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't, you will never know...my dad always use to say that if you get married you should marry your bestfriend....that way in ups and downs your never alone....I knwo your not thinking marriage here but ....isn't of wondering wouldn't it be nice knowing?
2006-11-22 17:24:21 · answer #1 · answered by LostInTheCrowd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, I wouldn't tell him now if he's seriously dating someone else. That would be kind of disrespectful to him. If his relationship with this other girl doesn't work out then maybe. But you have to remember the risks of becoming intimately involved with a good friend. It could work out well and that would be great. However, if it doesn't work out the friendship will most likely be ruined. You have to really weigh the options of what's more important to you: his friendship or your desire to have a more than platonic relationship with him.
2006-11-22 17:31:33 · answer #2 · answered by DawnDavenport 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should tell him, maybe you should not. Keeping things away from each other may be hard, but telling him could break the relationship. You could also have a friend go ask your friend if they had feelings for you, but make them do it very casually.
The downside could possibly end up as him not having feelings back, and an awkward gap could be created.
Maybe you should just tell him. Release your pressure. You don't need to take my word for it, just do what you feel like saying.
Good Luck!
2006-11-22 17:25:36 · answer #3 · answered by exorcism1121 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the trick to rope him: Make it seem like your dating a lot more than you actually are, but complain that every guy is a moron. Then slip something into the conversation like "Too bad you're taken. I'd totally go out with you." If he takes the bait, you're in. If he doesn't, you need to move on. A blatant drop like that is a way to test the waters while being able to retain the "Oh, you know, I was just rambling." excuse if it doesn't work. Good luck.
2006-11-22 17:21:55 · answer #4 · answered by Takfam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe when you date other guys, he's just being protective like an older brother. If you were to make a move, I'd at least wait until he's available. Good luck!
2006-11-22 17:22:16 · answer #5 · answered by Mochi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say follow your heart and do what you feel is best!! It would be a good thing if you told him because he will know how you feel about him. Telling him is the only way of finding out how he truly feels about you. Good Luck!!!
2006-11-22 17:30:47 · answer #6 · answered by sweet-b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in love with my best friend, too. I'm sorry, I know what you are going through is difficult.
Do not tell him, it will ruin your friendship-trust me. He will have a moment of weakness and it hurts.
2006-11-22 17:23:55 · answer #7 · answered by Colleen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is into dating himself, why does he feel jealous? He has no right. Make your own life.
2006-11-22 18:07:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah!!! Wait till he's done with the current girl if you can. Or just make out with him, and tell him you want him!!!
Good luck :)
2006-11-22 17:22:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no..do not tell him, if he's so into her then let them be and dont mess up what they could have, imagine if someone did the same to the guy ur dating..how would you feel?
2006-11-22 17:21:36 · answer #10 · answered by zahra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋