why is it when you look for a person with qaulities you can never find that person, but if you look for a person just for lust it is much easier?
2006-11-22 16:58:33 · 11 answers · asked by kispioxman2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe its bc people have more lust than when they show their qualities! like i mean, try to get to know them more, and maybe you'll find that they do have good qualities
2006-11-22 17:03:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's probably because you're like me - you have insanely high standards. You meet a girl who seems cool, then find some little thing that you don't like, decide she's not perfect and stop the whole thing before it even happens. Or again, maybe that's just me.
I've been trying to change though and here's what I think: find out which qualities are absolutely a must for you (same beliefs, wants or doesn't want kids, etc.), don't be picky on everything else. If you like gangsta rap and she listens to country, then just let it go, you know what I mean?
To answer your second question, we guys are pretty basic beasts when it comes to getting laid - if it has two legs and female organs, we're pretty much in. So in that case, many more girls fit the criteria...
2006-11-23 01:05:07 · answer #2 · answered by yishor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because shallow and gorgeous people are all over the place.
You actually have to approach and talk to a person to get to know them and find out if they have the qualities you're looking for and not enough people have the courage to do so.
2006-11-23 01:02:43 · answer #3 · answered by Imperfect 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well when looking for lust its just about appearance..one thing. But when you look for specific qualities there is more than one. So the chances are that you can find someone with one thing ---looks--as aposed to someone with multiple things--personality, humor, caring, honesty...etc
2006-11-23 01:01:15 · answer #4 · answered by c m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's easier because you're just looking for someone who will do it with you and it's a single criterion. whereas someone with the "qualities"...see? it's plural...and it's only going to be possible if yo will really "look" for the person. or the "someone"..if in case it's an animal..just kidding
2006-11-23 01:02:59 · answer #5 · answered by +j_d- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're looking either too hard or in all the wrong person. i am a strong believer that when you want something bad enough it will come to you and it is senseless to look so hard for something... alot of times what you are looking for is right there....
2006-11-23 01:59:20 · answer #6 · answered by heclee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is because so many people are willing and into sex. Or at least the world has been trying to make us believe so. Don';t give up, there are nice girls out there.
2006-11-23 01:03:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guesss most all of have a bit of lust brewing down in there somewhere ......but you are looking for good qualities........hmmmm..............
2006-11-23 01:03:09 · answer #8 · answered by Laura 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the requirements aren't as high.
2006-11-23 01:02:08 · answer #9 · answered by inquisitive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. you have lust in you already........ so its just a stimuli that sparks it...........
2006-11-23 01:03:57 · answer #10 · answered by bugi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋