why am I the most lonliness person alive?

Question

I feel so empty and abused

Answer 1

I bet a few old people in nursing homes that no one has visited for years are lonelier than you. I bet they could use some company. Why dont you go visit some?


What? no? suddenly your not as lonely as you thought I bet.

Answer 2

I think I understand you as many many years ago I felt the same way. There is a saying in order to have a friend be a friend , which makes sense if you have possible candidates around you which I did not Join a group as I did and even if you are crying on the inside smile on the outside. Just find a couple of people and ask them how they are, do they come to the group usually, what do they like about the group, and LISTEN to them. Same thing next time for a week or two then invite one out for coffee your treat and see where it goes from there. My mother used to beat me up and like a fool I took it. It made me feel like I was a reject. Remember God doesn't make rejects You are as good as the rest and don't deserve to feel this way. Good luck and try and have a Happy Holiday

Answer 3

hi, you have been given some good advice and some poor advice...shame on the person that wrote "slap" she needs to be slapped twice.

I have been real lonely before and still am at times. the advice to go visit people in the nursing home is good. I used to do that and it was a real blessing. I went to visit little old ladies that were Christians that couldn't go to church anymore. I would sing to them and pray with them and visit for a while. When I left I felt better!
Also the best way to expand your circle of friends is to find someone who needs a friend and YOU be the one to reach out. Get your attention on the needs of others, give out of your need. It really works. I bet there is a single parent somewhere nearby that could use a friend...and their kids could use another "aunt". Kids have a good way of making you feel wanted.

Jesus can fill that empty place with LOVE. He really loves you and wants to comfort you. You really can have a relationship with Jesus. He is the Hope of the World.

Answer 4

I don't believe that you are the loneliest person alive, we all get lonely some times it is normal and I think that you need to figure out some thing different to do with some of your time. Go out and be in the public some times and make some friends if you can. Make sure that they are good people and you really actually do have some thing in common with them so that you like that thing and are not being phony with them. Some times it works out and some times it doesn't, but you will meet some of their friends that way to and that is how the circle grows.

Answer 5

Well Myself and a friend I met here both think we are the loneliest so you wanna compete? We write each other and it helps, you are welcome to email me. I know what it feels like to feel all alone in the world, have felt that way most of my life. If people have not felt that way they can offer advice but they can't really understand. She and I have never met, but our emails make us feel a little less lonely and we found we have things in common I was surprised someone thought some of the same things I did. So I dare ya, bet I am lonelier. :) email me, I will listen, or read that is.

Answer 6

No you're not, there are millions of lonely people in the world. You sound depressed. Maybe you've been in an abusive relationship. Get some help. Talk to a therapist or whatever you need to do. When you're depressed it seems like no one wants to be around. When you're happy, everyone wants to be your friend. You just have to learn to be happy again.

Answer 7

Trust me, your not the lonliness person alive. Look at Michael Jackson. But maybe your lonely because maybe you could be shy like me and you need to socialise more with people at your school or workplace, club,etc.

Answer 8

I'm sorry you feel this way. No one should have to feel so alone, empty and abused. There must be a reason for these feelings and you need to explore them with a therapist. I really hope you can find some peace and fulfillment.

Answer 9

I felt that way for a long time. The answer for me was finding the love of another person. For the longest time I thought I was unworthy or unable to love or be loved. I lived a life of solitude for years and I finally found someone who made me feel important. I guess my point is that no matter how bad things seem to be they can always get better.

Answer 10

Christina (SLAP!!! across the face)! The best way for you to feel better is to spend some time with people that you love and care for you (family and friends). Talk to someone. Also, since it is holiday time, you can volunteer your time to help people that are more lonely, empty, and abuse than you. Volunteer at a shelter or in a hospital in your area. Serve dinner to homeless people for the holiday or something.There are many people in need who could use your help. I promise, you will feel great and thankful for what you DO have. It will be a humbling experience for you. Take care and I wish you the best. Peace.

Answer 11

It could be the way you are thinking. In your mind you may be feeling bad for yourself constantly or that you are not good enough for anyone or anything. Once you start to believe you deserve better than what you have then you can see some changes. Ie. You think happy thoughts you will be happy. You think you are ugly and useless then everyone else will feel that way. If you dont believe in yourself and truly love yourself then no one will.