We were sitting at dinner and i was like look i have nice calves and he said "yeah like tree trunks" and i was really hurt by what he said. and then he kept telling me how he was kidding and that i was so beautiful. but i cant help but be upset. I KNOW he was kidding. i know he was but it still hurt. Is there a way i can tell him that it really hurt my feelings?
2006-11-22 16:42:20 · 11 answers · asked by FairChild 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him "that really hurt my feelings." let him know it was deeper than a simple "just kidding" can erase. After that, relax. He probably just heard that clever little comment somewhere and was just waiting for an excuse to use it. Boys are dumb. He didn't think before he said it. And he thought it would be funny... even though it wasn't.
2006-11-22 16:46:16 · answer #1 · answered by Chiky 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that he must have felt this was true at some point to have said it. Tell him that it really hurt you that he would even think that for even a second. Good luck. I don't agree with Chicky's answer. If he did hear it somewhere and thought it was funny, then he entertained the thought that hey this applies to my gf. Again not funny if it hurt or offends you.
2006-11-22 16:46:51 · answer #2 · answered by David C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be optimistic, you know trees can be pretty beautiful, i just love walking through the woods, and the trunk of a tree is often compared to ones caves, just because they both help provide stability for the rest of the structure...
2006-11-22 16:47:27 · answer #3 · answered by eternity 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he already knows,however, the sad truth is the real world is a lot meaner than that, and you need to grow some thick skin if you are going to make it without having your feelings hurt everyday.
2006-11-22 16:47:11 · answer #4 · answered by rufi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd just get over it if I were you. And besides, why did you randomly say you had nice calves? That's seriously asking for a teasing response, since you're kinda flaunting yourself. Eh, just get over it.
2006-11-22 16:48:03 · answer #5 · answered by djdep13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 02:37:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, you have tree trunk legs....big deal...WOW, you're hurt over words.....girl get over it....don't take crap like that to the heart.
2006-11-22 16:47:34 · answer #7 · answered by iGNORANT GiRL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He shouldn't really say that.
Tell him straight up, make him grovel a bit, make him feel a bit bad then forgive him. Enjoy making him feel bad too ;) You girlies are quite good @ that.
2006-11-22 16:47:30 · answer #8 · answered by Random Mandom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men sometimes forget they are not talking to their men friends or just it was a good joke they heard somewhere and want to try it out on someone, but i am sure it was just a bad joke
2006-11-22 18:24:58 · answer #9 · answered by mgibson92804 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that you dont want to talk to him for a while...and take some time to think......try to releive ure madness...and try not to b soo sensitive like me......lol....good luck with ure bf and ure troubles............
~Miley~
2006-11-22 16:47:45 · answer #10 · answered by alli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋