I think im getting depressed because of my ex breaking up with me...I no longer have an appetite to eat or to look good ect...I am in so much pain...Everyone tells me to hang in there and to go on and be happy...How can i if i lost my love...Its 2 weeks he broke up with me and he did a 360 on me...We were always together ect ...Now he says that i can do better than him and that he doesnt want a girlfriend in his life...I called him yesterday and he yelled at me he told me not to call him anymore....hes so mean to me...He blocked me on msn messenger and deleted me on his Hi 5 profile list...I didnt do anything to him..he refuses to answer my questions on why he broke up with me ect..I am 26 years old and i feel like hes acting like a big baby..
2006-11-22 16:17:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he is really acting like a big baby....then let him act like that don't wast your time on stupid men!!!! You are so much better then that!!!! Remember that God has a plan for you and there is the right one out there for you the one and only....be patient and everything will be okay!!!!
2006-11-22 16:28:02 · answer #1 · answered by socerchic2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you really have to sit down and think about this. There is obviously something that has happened that caused him to not want to be with you anymore. Look at it this way...Its over.... whether you want it to be or not it is. If he isn't willing to talk to you about anything it is obvious he doesn't want to work it out. Relationships are two sided. You DO deserve better than him. He IS a big baby because he isn't talking to you and tells you that u deserve better. Men like that aren't worth all the heart ache. I know its hard...breaking up always is....but he sounds like an idiot. 26? You're still young. Life will go on. Listen....what I learned is that unless you are comfortable being alone.... how can you expect to live your life? How can you be so dependant on someone else? Be Independant. You will find that you will be more happy. And when someone else comes along...they will admire you for your strength and ability to be independant.
2006-11-23 00:24:13 · answer #2 · answered by confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing to do is leave him alone - period.
Second thing to do is to get some counseling for yourself and work through the break up day by day --- keep moving forward.
From what you wrote it seems you are too clingy and that can end a relationship quicker than anything.... no man is your whole world - you still should hang out with friends/family and be able to function well without being with him all the time. He broke up with you and you're still in pursuit of him trying to contact him by phone /messenger service ... when someone ends the relationship, you end contact with that person... especially when he doesn't want you to contact him. A person doesn't have to give you reasons why they ended the relationship - the point is they ended it and you have to work through the break up regardless if you know why they broke up with you or not.... seek counseling asap.
2006-11-23 00:29:12 · answer #3 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is one of the hardest things in life to get over but you have to move on. think of the positives...1. you can now flirt with other guys 2. you know that he doesnt love you, so why should you love him...good thing you didnt marry that bastard 3. theres so many better men out there waiting to love someone like you
i know how you feel..you feel like you are all alone because he meant so much to you..but you have to realize that you're not alone and you'll find someone new sooner or later. move on, look for love somewhere else
2006-11-23 00:24:39 · answer #4 · answered by peterthegreekboy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok..... look your 26 years old and your acting like one of my friends who just broke up with her boyfriend and let me tell ya I'M IN 8th grade at least you can meet so many new boys here me and my friends r stuck in one school with the same boys IT SUCKS so stop sitting around and crying because that's probably what he wants to see. and you should NEVER let a man think he needs you.... yup that's probably the STUPIDEST thing to do trust me i am going threw the same thing it hurts a lot but if you keep calling him and bugging him your wasting your own time get out there and start over! hey your only 26 who knows whats waiting for you!!!:)
2006-11-23 00:26:59 · answer #5 · answered by chicklet 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
guys tend to say exactly what they mean. He doenst want to be in a relationship with you. As soon as you accept this, the sooner you will be able to move on. And do something for yourself. either get drunk and make out with a total stranger, or do it like me. buy SHOES.
~Love Always
Bianca
p.s. and dont forget... if you happen to have his credit card, go wild and buy a island in the carribean.
2006-11-23 00:22:02 · answer #6 · answered by lapuertoricana1658 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through that same exact thing. My ex was rude like that. We dated for a year and he made some stupid excuse...he just didn't know what he wanted. Once your ex realizes what he lost he will be callin you up again begging for your forgiveness like mine. don't give him the time of day, you are mature and deserve better.
2006-11-23 00:27:07 · answer #7 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, it hurts and it sucks. I kind-of hate to say this but everytime a guy told me that I could do better than him, he had done something wrong and was too cowardly or guilty to tell me. They cut you off so that they don't have to face it and get yelled at.
2006-11-23 00:26:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As hard as it may be, you have to forget him and move on. I know it's hard because I have had someone I loved leave me too.
Since you're depressed, seek professional help to help you get through this hard time.
Good luck and take care.
2006-11-23 00:21:24 · answer #9 · answered by Nancy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get out there and look for somebody else! You'll find somebody soon!
2006-11-23 00:23:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋