Screw him over before he screws me over.?

Question

So here's the situation, i'm currently talking to this guy that I met on my personal. We've been hitting if off pretty well, though we haven't really decided what we are actually going to do. I personally thought it would work. Until my friend pointed out what he wrote on his profile. So his profile is summed up like this ."Sometimes, i'm in the mood for a relationship, other times I want to ****,talk to me and i'll let you know which one". My friend basically told me i was stupid talking to him and that he'll hurt me and i should move on. I think he would do it too. One red flag was that he said he was going to delete his profile... never did. we're not officially together, but I'm the kind of person that would run somebody over with a car if someone told me that person was out to get me,even if they weren't. I've been ****** over many times and when someone plays me i take action.What would you do if you thought a potential prospect would screw you over. Would you try to do it first

Answer 1

This is just a profile. Try not to read too much into little actions. Have you even spent any time with this guy to get to know him? Try to detach yourself from this situation and do not get too invested. That is how people get hurt. If you give all your attention and power to another person, they may feel like it is OK to be selfish. Balance this situation. Work on maintaining some sort of personal power and dignity in your love relationships. Love requires give and take. If you are going to lay down and be a doormat, people will step on you - it is human nature. I know my post sounds harsh, but the more loving amongst us has to work on being more detached and balancing our relationships. It took me years to learn this, but it is very important.

Answer 2

All of us guys sometimes want to be in a relationship and sometimes just feel like a dog who needs to hump, but the fact that he would put it on his profile, like, if you're good enough I might think about a relationship with you, but otherwise, I'll just **** you, then it shows that this is a pretty shallow guy. Just make sure that this is what you saw on his profile with your own eyes and not something your friend said they saw on his profile.

If he told you he'd delete his profile and didn't, then he wants to keep his channels open in case something better opens up. This makes you his back-up girl. If things don't work out, he'll try it out with you, but most likely just to get in your pants. If he truly cared about you, he'd go delete his profile, or at least update it with something to signify that he's met someone and is not available right now.

So to sum it up, I'd dump him now, at best he doesn't give the two of you much of a chance and wants to keep his channels open, at worst, he knows exactly what he's doing - he wants to sleep with you and then dump you once you get too "clingy". Either way, he's not worth your trouble.

Answer 3

if someone hurts u distance yourself from them, vengance is immature, and will only hurt u worse. get to know a guy before u invite them into your life, u don't take the time to really know who u are deciding to be with. first can u trust them,next are they reliable, whats in his past, and in his profile it already tells u, sometimes he is in the mood for....sometimes not....sounds as if this guy is totally full of himself, i can already see the red flags. u don't bother to check them out before falling in love and giving away your heart, you are worth alot more than your getting from these loosers. revenge is wrong, it can get u locked up, and it ties u to the person or circumstance forever, and u become bitter and mean, so best just to pick wisely, don't give the heart away so fast, need to know what your dealing with first. is he worthy of u is the uestion, or is he just another jerk out for whatever he can beat u out of, your money or your love, or both. got to be discerning when u meet the men on line.

Answer 4

never listen to gossip!!! that will get you into trouble.
ask your friend when did this guy write his profile?
he might have changed it by now once he met you!!
so dont jump to conclusions on what someone else said [in fact] turn a deaf ear to them until you actually find out otherwise.
by doing this you will be saving your relationship. it is all [common sense]. when you think about it.

Answer 5

in the first place web dating isnt the way to go by finding someone.there are a lot of bad guys out there just looking for a girl to use.be careful.

Answer 6

i would say u dont have to do him in b4 he does you in. just end it if thats what you want, and dont look back. if he wrote his profile b4 he "met" you or not, its still a sleazy comment and if he didnt remove it since u 2 "met" then perhaps hes thinking of a casual you-know-what with you and/or whoever. what a bunch of bologna. this guy sounds very immature.

Answer 7

Yeah hit'em with a car

Answer 8

Go run him over... he probably needs it!! Listen to your friend..=)

Answer 9

stay away from that web dating crap, that's dangerous & a waste of time..

Answer 10

leave before you are left