my boyfriend was away on a trip he wasn't due back for another 3 days but he came home early. well when he came home he found me pleasuring myself while watching an xxrated adult movie. well he was ticked and he told me that we were through and tool off. well when he finally calmed down he came back home and told me that if I wanted to work things out that I had to quit the nasty **** I was doing. and through away the movie.... what I need know is some advice as to what I should do.
2006-11-22 16:02:33 · 12 answers · asked by sweet sweet me 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you did nothing wrong! get a new boyfriend. I came home early to suprize my girl and caught someone else pleasing her. I wish I had someone as loyal and kinky as you.
2006-11-22 16:08:49 · answer #1 · answered by sufferingnomad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that u just needed sumthin 2 tie urself over until he got back. Then try 2 convince him 2 try some of the thiongs that were so interrdting 2 u in the video 2 try and spice things up a bit. Tell him that its natural. I'm sure hes jacked off b4, u jus didnt catch him. Hes probably upset cuz he may feel as if u think hes not on his job. Jus explain 2 him otherwise.
2006-11-23 00:07:25 · answer #2 · answered by 1hotmama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he trying to say he never pleasures himself. Come on. Most people gotta take care of this for them selfs once in a while. He should have been glad to see you alone and jumped in to finished the job. Give me a break. You did nothing wrong. Ask him why it bothered him so much.
2006-11-23 00:08:02 · answer #3 · answered by MereBear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok your bf is an idiot. would he rather you have been doing that or sleeping with someone else ??? From personal experiance I once went on a trip for over a month and bought my ex boyfrined mags and movies I told him have fun with the palms instead of someone else. Is he so insecure that he thinks you can please yourself better than he can ? He needs to get a grip on reality. Tell him to wak up and smell the coffee brewing.
2006-11-23 00:07:19 · answer #4 · answered by brookesingsalways 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He really over reacted..... You were doing what is normal for anyone to do Male or female...... Unless he is a religious person, and even then, He over reacted......
He is acting as though he caught you with another man..... I believe he has a lot of insecurities and even some jealousies he needs to deal with..... I also think he is a bit controling....
I would be careful with this guy and really consider moving on to someone who is not so WEIRD......
2006-11-23 00:11:15 · answer #5 · answered by turmoilwithin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow I bet your man is exciting in bed...I would have joined in the "fun" myself. You shouldn't let him make you feel ashamed for partaking in a natural activity. If he means that much to you just make sure you don't get caught. Try it while taking a bath, you may have to give up the movies but hey you've always got your imagination.
2006-11-23 00:12:58 · answer #6 · answered by BluLizard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend needs to chill.If he cared about you getting pleasure then he would want recieve it so you felt good.Sounds like he is selfish and that if he can't be part of it he gets pissed.He should grow up!I'm sure he's done himself a time or two.Everybody has!
2006-11-23 00:08:52 · answer #7 · answered by andy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time for a new boyfriend. You did nothing wrong. Don't let him lay a guilt trip on you.
2006-11-23 01:53:19 · answer #8 · answered by foghat77 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought guys loved masturbation. I know guys who who love to watch their woman play with herself. I can't believe he doesn't beat the bishop!
2006-11-23 00:12:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on you did nothing wrong and he should be glad you were doing it by yourself instead of with some one else, and yes he should have helped you finish, sorry to be so bold but thats what it comes down to.. you did nothing wrong
2006-11-23 00:13:19 · answer #10 · answered by daniel h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋