I'm seeing someone. We last saw each other Saturday night. It's now Wednesday night and I haven't heard from him, not a phone call or email. Should I be worried or is this normal for guys? We've been dating a month. Thanks!
2006-11-22 16:01:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's not dating anyone else.
2006-11-22 16:02:10 · update #1
We already do have plans to see each other again next week.
2006-11-22 16:05:45 · update #2
1) It is o.k. to call him ya know... If you don't connect and leave a message he should respond in a reasonable amount of time, especially if it's a cell phone.
2) hopefully he's not playing the "guess where I am and what I'm doing" game; that's not o.k.
3) what are his usual behaviors re calls??
- is he out of town for the holiday??
4) not dating anyone else?? how would you know??
5) what you shouldn't be doing is putting too much negative energy into this.. a one month relationship isn't exactly a relationship yet..
give it at least 6 months... before you start thinking relationship; you will have a history by then to draw upon.
2006-11-22 16:08:16 · answer #1 · answered by gjm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may just have a lot going on right now, with the holiday and everything. Why don't you call him tomorrow to wish him a happy thanksgiving and see how it goes. It's hard to say what's normal because all guys are different. My husband is the complete opposite of most men, so for him, there is no such thing as normal in my life!
2006-11-22 16:07:43 · answer #2 · answered by casey's girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you have made plans to get together again, there's nothing to worry about.
He's busy doing his normal everyday things. A lot of the time, guys don't call.
When I was dating, this was normal behavior.
What you can do is wait until the day you're supposed to see him and call him then to confirm your date.
2006-11-22 16:11:49 · answer #3 · answered by Nancy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he liked you, he would have made plans right away to see you again. He certainly would have called you by now. As they say, he's just not that into you. You can make as many excuses as you want (maybe I missed his call, maybe he's sick, maybe I just didn't get his email, etc.) but it won't change the truth.
P.S. You only THINK he isn't seeing anyone else.
2006-11-22 16:04:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's normal. You can worry all you want, but it's not going to change anything where he's concerned. You'll hear from him again when he's ready to call you, or you could end your suffering now, & call him yourself.
2006-11-22 16:08:43 · answer #5 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he hasnt called for 4 days.. he doesnt seem to be very interested. If he was into the relation, he wud make an effort at gettin in touch with u...
2006-11-22 16:11:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'd call him and ask how his week has been...be nice, he might have a legitimate excuse. dont get mad because guys hate that. since your not serious or anything, dont make a big deal out of it. once he starts to know you more, he'll want to call you more.
2006-11-22 16:05:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he was fine on Saturday and he's OK ,then don't worry maybe he's just busy or needs some time for him...
2006-11-22 16:07:21 · answer #8 · answered by Bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him one more day and then find out whats going on.
2006-11-22 16:03:43 · answer #9 · answered by PCM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u sure hes not dating anyone else...how would you know.?
2006-11-22 16:04:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋