I apologies if this is to detail or wrong for some people I just dont know what to do...
Today I had my girlfriend over and we been going out for about 2 weeks now. She was giving me a handjob and it was great but I lasted way too long for her comfort. It got to tiring for her and we didnt finsh cause she had to go. I was wondering what she/I could do to make it faster? Any advice would be greatful...
thanks... And again I apologies if this bother anyone...
2006-11-22 15:58:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also she didnt want to give head or have sex because friday she said it was going to be a really good night for me and I had to wait but she was only willing to do that.
2006-11-22 16:07:15 · update #1
Us women deal with this a lot ! There seem to be a lot of sex acts that don't bring a lot of women to orgasm quickly. Do what us women do - show her what works for you. Maybe you could enjoy a handjob for a while, and then move on to something else. The two of you could enjoy mutual masturbation, or you could help her along with your own hand, or she can move on to oral stimulation. Many people have to move from one act to another to orgasm, you shouldn't worry about this. Maybe she wouldn't tire so easily if you were giving her some pleasure at the same time. Because you've only been dating for a couple of weeks, the two of you haven't learned much about each other's sexual needs, etc. Don't rush it, you'll figure this out together.
2006-11-22 16:13:41 · answer #1 · answered by Memphis qt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless she did not have a good grip this one is on you. What were you thinking about while she was working away? Obviously you were not that into it or you would not of had this problem. In the future try more kissing, touching, and foreplay. That way you will be almost ready to pop before she takes things into her own hands. If the poor girl is about to cramp up or get carpel tunnel just close your eyes and think about any really hot fantasy just to help get finished... it should be fun, not work. Good Luck.
2006-11-22 16:04:23 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-12 23:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you just sitting there letting her rub on you? Did you do anything to try and please her? I know that my husband does much better if he is participating than if he is just sitting there taking it. Try making it a group activity instead. That way, if you don't finish in a timely manner, you can focus your energy on her, and then she won't feel like the whole thing was useless.
2006-11-22 16:03:55 · answer #4 · answered by toothfairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just have sex with her? It won't take that long, will it? Get her to move her hand faster if you want (and of course what guy wouldn't?).
2006-11-22 16:02:14 · answer #5 · answered by Moore's Babe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and you 2 been going out for 2 weeks?
2006-11-22 16:01:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She might be doing the physical work, but you need to fantasize or you could even help her along...yeah, with your own hand.
2006-11-22 16:01:12 · answer #7 · answered by mich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch some porn before she comes over or if she's comfortable watch it together, or maybe suggest to her a head job??? just don't scare her off... other than that my friend.
2006-11-22 16:03:14 · answer #8 · answered by brown eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-22 16:06:55 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try some foreplay before it.
2006-11-22 16:03:58 · answer #10 · answered by Ariella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋