I asked a girl out and she tells me she's not interested. I was confused. 1. Because I'm like 0-39. 2. Because This was a first I ever got. So then I continue and asked her another time. She then said MAYBE. Flat out maybe. So I guess my biggest question is Should I continue this fight. Should I continue to pursue her. Or should i hang up my gloves for good. Please help me.
2006-11-22 15:55:23 · 11 answers · asked by John H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe is as good as no. i know it sucks but just wait..shes not worth your time. if she did eventually say yes, she'd probably drop you within a couple weeks. you'll find a girl that likes you the same sooner or later. sometimes its just a waiting game..but make sure you keep your eyes open!
2006-11-22 15:59:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So is asking out girls a game for you? Are you persuing her to add another conquest? Or because you like her? What do you want from her? These questions are not for my benefit, they are for yours. When you know what you want, you can better choose how to get it, yet there are no guarantees, only chances.
Not everyone will like you or want to go out with you. Are you willing to accept that without feeling that your "stats" are tainted? You have the freedom to decide what to do.
The best help I can offer is to look at yourself to see what you want and expect, using logic to discover how reasonable your expectations are and go for it! If it doesn't get you what you want, try something different or change your way of thinking.
If you take rejection personally rather than accepting that different people make different choices, you allow your feelings and self image to be based on what other people think rather than deciding for yourself who you are.
2006-11-22 16:14:20 · answer #2 · answered by teach_empathy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It must be interesting to walk around with your head sideways.
2016-05-22 20:37:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she tells you she is not interested and you keep bothering her you could be considered a stalker. If I were you I would back off.
2006-11-22 15:57:41 · answer #4 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do when she says no is to say "your loss". Don't be a wuss and stop pursuing her, she'll eventually come to you.
2006-11-22 15:59:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her, nothing should be stopping you from going after her. Give it a chance
2006-11-22 15:58:03 · answer #6 · answered by Milosenpotion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your Heart
2006-11-22 16:12:06 · answer #7 · answered by DaClint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont keep buggin her just start to hang out wit her and maybe she will start to get more into u
2006-11-22 15:58:23 · answer #8 · answered by Emily L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont chase someone that isnt ketchable. Let her go and get someone who will be there for u.
2006-11-22 16:00:28 · answer #9 · answered by Just Ask 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no means no . saying maybe is just a nice way of saying no
2006-11-22 15:59:35 · answer #10 · answered by sufferingnomad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋